So I was talking with a plate, and I told her.

" You do these sweet things for me and it feels like you're trying to win my affection. I don't want you to get lead on, I'm not looking for commitment and its going to take a fucking lot for you to earn my trust and even have me consider something serious with you."

And she said that she understands me and that she is happy being non monogamous. She says she enjoys what we are and enjoys that there is no drama, and that she doesn't even ask me for commitment because she knows I don't want it and doesn't want to push me into something I don't want.

But what confuses me is, if she is happy with the way we are. Why does she spend so much time going out of her way to do things for me specifically to make me happy. And why is she not fucking other people? She lets me have full access to her phone whenever I want and we actually enjoy fucking with her orbiters together. She has legit said that I can text whatever dude I want in her contacts / snapchat whatever the fuck I want because she doesn't want any of them.

So what gives. Why is she happy non monogamous, and if she is contempt with this why does she do the extras?