This seems to be extremely common lately for me and I am trying to determine if it is my text game or these women are just flakey and not interested. Keep in mind this is women on dating apps I am dealing with.

I can message back and forth, build some rapport and they reciprocate positively (responding within 30min or less). As soon as I hit them with the "Let's do X, meet me at Y and Z time" they vanish.

Now normally I would chalk it up to a numbers game but this has been happening at an alarmingly high rate lately to the point where I am not going on dates anymore at all. I literally cannot get past this stage and a month ago this was not an issue.

This is not a humble brag, I consider myself an attractive male and I have been told many times by straight dudes I am a good looking man. I think my pictures are also very flattering and I have a men's physique build (I compete) and around 5'10" height. I really do not think my looks are hurting me here so it must be something else.

Are we experiencing an influx of people returning to the date market post covid lockdown that is causing these fickle bitches to be more choosy all the sudden. I swear to god 4 weeks ago I did not have this problem at all. Anyone else noticing this trend all the sudden?