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_Ulan_ · 2018-04-12T14:48:04+00:00

Talk about present stuff, current feelings and emotions. Don;t talk about past experiences or boring life stuff. Once you set a subject of discussion going, she will eventually drift off to talking about her and you can focus on your game.

"I like what they did with those rock star posters in this bar, these two guys played live in this bar a long while ago. Can you imagine being here back in those days. I must be wild !"

" I feel like this drink would be better with a tiny bit of lemon in it "

Recently I enjoy looking at other couples/people in the place and judging them or inventing stories about them. Doing the voice-over is a fun game as well if she is playful

I used to do a lot of storytelling, but I now try to limit it as it is only mildly entertaining. I only do it if it is a way to connect emotionally as well as being entertaining.

bupkiss1290 · 2018-04-12T15:07:02+00:00

At the end of the day, it really doesn't matter what you talk about with a girl if she is into you. Given this fact, don't overthink conversations. If you assume attraction and are confident, that will shine through with them.

That said, there are two things you should stay away from in conversation: their exes and their "guy troubles". Unless you want to turn into her emotional tampon gay friend, steer clear of any conversations about these subject matters. If either comes up, change the subject to something more interesting.

3d_truth · 2018-04-12T16:22:33+00:00

I usually talk about lamingtons

1z1z2x2x3c3c4v4v · 2018-04-12T17:33:29+00:00

OK, here. You want to ask her about her. You want to get to the reasons behind who she is, and she does the things she does. You want to get the root emotions behind her stories. Then you bond with those emotions by telling stories where you felt the same way as her. And if it works, you get that "me too" moment, or the "he just gets me" moment.

Make sense?

but I also hear people say to not do that since it will make you a friend.

NO. What makes you a friend is how you act. If you act all friendly, that how she will see you. If you flirt and escalate, thats how you show her how you feel. Her reaction to your action will show you how she feels.

htbf · 2018-04-12T20:11:01+00:00

Anything you want.

Title	Conversation
Author	leCuri123456
Upvotes	3
Comments	7
Date	April 12, 2018 2:33 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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