Damn. What the hell did I do?

redhawkes · 2020-02-28T20:37:17+00:00

She did that to get attention(from someone else), also, got your hamster spinning along the way. Playing the victim card works for women, doesn't work and it's unattractive when men do it.

You see the phrase "use texting for logistics only", this is the reason why. Cos you don't know when to STFU, and keep it simple.

Stop being a fucking drama queen, go out and have fun. Don't initiate until she hits you first (if).

VasiliyZaitzev · 2020-02-28T20:51:47+00:00

Stop taking shit personally.

i-am-the-prize · 2020-02-28T21:00:24+00:00

this was self deprecating on her part ("...too") and also a test.

you failed the test then it sent you reeling....

the 'too' part was your lifeline. Compare how this would have been less kind:

" so nobody invited you out this weekend? 😅"

OP what your EGO is blocking you from seeing, is that she's:

telling you she is also free/without plans dummy
she's ASD'ing the fact that you hadn't reached out yet/already

WTF man, just hit her back and stop hamstering yourself to death.

example:

her: "so nobody invited you out this weekend too? 😅"

you: "I'll be at XYZ at 8pm on Saturday, thirsty?"

Do NOT DEER (the blah blah below about your bros being out of town) do not Defend or Explain or Rationalize. Just open her and set the lead. If she follows, great, if not, find another 3.

kellykebab · 2020-02-28T20:47:40+00:00

Sounds like she's a bitch. Good riddance.

ynwa_glastobater · 2020-02-28T20:51:09+00:00

What? I don’t get it? Isn’t she saying saying that she hasn’t been invited out either but in a joking way..that’s all.

XT3M3 · 2020-02-28T22:01:23+00:00

bruh, shes saying shes free too should have just said join me at __________ @ _ o clock..

i get that this is ask trp, but alot of you guys are horrible at reading females. not everything is a god damned shit test, shot at the ego

Snowboard18 · 2020-02-28T22:13:54+00:00

Most likely she was just giving you a hint to ask her to do something, not every little thing is a shot at your ego lol.Btw don’t tell a girl that you have zero plans the entire weekend.

frognads · 2020-02-29T03:32:12+00:00

You care too much. Game other girls.

Title	Damn. What the hell did I do?
Author	plastic-watering-can
Upvotes	0
Comments	43
Date	February 28, 2020 8:26 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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