Dating a single mother

CanadianRedMaple · 2016-09-21T00:48:06+00:00

Nope.

Mackland · 2016-09-21T01:05:37+00:00

Let's be blunt about it, why would you want to take care of some other guy's fuck trophy? Beyond that, she claims that "you saved her" because she finally found some guy that would give her the time of day being a single mother.

You're a young dude and have plenty of other holes you could be filling out there and you're chosing one that's already popped a kid out. Also, you said you haven't been together long and she's already telling you that she loves you.... RED FUCKING FLAG

W_O_M_B_A_T · 2016-09-21T03:54:57+00:00

Don't ever, ever verbally commit to a SM. Don't ever agree to meet her kid(s). Don't keep any of her stuff at your place. Plate status only. No exceptions.

That's how the game works. Commit to her when her kids father didn't, he immediately becomes alpha and you immediately become her beta provider. He was strong enough and bad enough to walk away from her crazy manipulative bullshit and fuck more valuable attractive women than her. You aren't.

Tamarin24 · 2016-09-21T01:25:41+00:00

Because what you want is sex, but what she wants is for you to eventually provide for the kid. Do you want to provide for the kid? If no, then you need to not get too attached. Or, like many recommended, leave.

Phyzis · 2016-09-21T01:30:53+00:00

You "saved" her LOL

Run. If your dick convinces you to stay, see you in 8 months in your next post: "I paid for all her shit, took care of her kid, saved her, then she fucked 8 other guys"

aurelius_shrugs · 2016-09-21T05:37:41+00:00

Would you date a land mine. Have fun nigga.

50pluspiller · 2016-09-21T01:01:38+00:00

Run Forrest run!

MikeAlphaGolf · 2016-09-21T02:17:08+00:00

You're the Beta Bux, my young friend.

And you are gobbling up her shtick. Hook, line and sinker.

Cool things immediately. Read the sidebar even more immediately.

Condoms.

Surfincloud9 · 2016-09-21T01:37:35+00:00

Have you learned anything?

knightSwolaire · 2016-09-21T02:40:45+00:00

What everyone else is saying. Walk. You have a bad case of one-itis and it's going to be a net negative for you.

Why?

Have you no abundance?

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aurelius_shrugs · 2016-09-21T06:10:58+00:00

Her kid is a fuck trophy. Have some respect for yourself.

finitely_eclectic · 2016-09-21T11:08:21+00:00

never. date. single. moms. PERIOD.

use the experience that other guys have gone through and don't make the same mistakes.

fantasmas05 · 2016-09-21T16:01:28+00:00

Before I found TRP I dated a single mother with a 10 year old kid for 1.5 years. She had more red flags than China and I ignored them all. She fed me lines like "my daughter has a father already" and "her father pays for her" etc

Fast forward a few months and I'm forking out cash for three people everywhere we go, meals, tickets, presents, candy... It all added up quickly. Then once her ex found out about me he stopped paying his child support.... Guess who the mom then hit up for some extra cash? Even with the promise of paying me back, I never saw a cent.

She's reeling you I'm dude and playing you for a fool. She wants you to be her beta bux. Get the fuck out.

Cut your losses and walk away early otherwise it just gets harder and harder. Trust me on this. I broke up with mine early, only to be reeled back in for what I refer to as a year and a half of pure hell. Single mothers are awful to date.

blackhawks93 · 2016-09-21T01:22:01+00:00

You can do whatever you want but the reality is that she has a child that will consume a lot of her time. You are still young and you should be able to find a girl that isn't a single mom.

Kalepsis · 2016-09-21T03:51:51+00:00

Don't.

sd4c · 2016-09-21T22:20:38+00:00

sd4c · 2016-09-21T22:30:25+00:00

The "why" is because they are motivated, motivated, motivated to reel you in to paying for housing, food, school, car insurance, clothes, etc. None of this happens suddenly, it's gradual. Single moms loop you in with free ass: plate -> FWB -> LTR -> co-habitate -> oops_pregnancy. Then you're fucked, because your child support for your own kid goes to her, and she gets to administer who it goes to and for what. Always, that is the law.

Get the fuck out. Now! Don't even screw them, not until male birth control is here.

Title	Dating a single mother
Author	drunkenmix123
Upvotes	5
Comments	45
Date	September 21, 2016 12:17 AM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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