Dealing with the post first date lay hamster

Atomz00 · 2021-02-16T01:45:20+00:00

" including fingering her ass, for the next two hours "

long time to have a finger in someones ass

Give_Praise_Unto_Me · 2021-02-16T02:00:13+00:00

I'm not going to lie, the whole "risk appetite outdoor meetings" requirement is pretty obtuse once they've already fucked you, but I digress.

dickenball_jones · 2021-02-16T02:35:03+00:00

Shoot straight. Tell her what you’re looking for. Mental/social gymnastics are for people who are desperate/have something to lose.

New_Guard · 2021-02-16T03:21:24+00:00

"I think the safest thing would be for you to make me dinner."

For the "what are you looking for" questions, I answer honestly that I'm openminded, and depending on the match, a range of options could be on the table. I don't get into the details that in all likelihood, given the low quality of most women, the only value she can offer is probably a short term fling, or that I have a hard time imagining any woman providing enough value that living with her would seem like a good idea. I'm still open to the idea that such a thing could happen. Just seems incredibly unlikely.

Also, I would never consider a lawyer for anything other than a fling. Women are already naturally argumentative enough. Choosing a woman who enjoys arguing enough to make it her profession, and has had years of formal training in manipulative argumentation? No.

atticusfinch1973 · 2021-02-16T13:21:56+00:00

Tell her to pickup takeout and bring it to your place because you want to show her XYZ whatever. And you'll supply the wine. Why even go out?

She knows you want to bang her again. She just needs plausible deniability. Give it to her.

jjj2576 · 2021-02-16T01:42:36+00:00

Don’t fail the Shit and Comfort Tests. Maintain Frame. Use Game and Kino to gauge IOI’s and escalate.

EternalMangekyou777 · 2021-02-16T03:19:18+00:00

Two hours of ass fingering ? you hit the lotto man. Keep up the good work Sounds like a great prospect

ArgentinaMRP · 2021-02-16T04:37:59+00:00

in the end she's giving me the "are you just using me for sex" question.

During the first time you guys get together? Yikes...

Here is the thing, you add her to your dating pipeline and go from there. If she asks your thoughts you just reply something along the lines that you "date women and see where it goes". I would be wary seeing a woman who already asks this question during/after the first time or two getting together.

PatagucciSledz · 2021-03-02T01:30:55+00:00

Who gives a fuck

Title	Dealing with the post first date lay hamster
Author	ModsCantBanMe2020
Upvotes	1
Comments	23
Date	February 16, 2021 1:28 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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