Cleaned up my tinder profile and have been on several dates this week with women. I've been able to get the girls back to either my place or theirs, but am always defeated by some form of LMR or ASD where the girl is telling me she doesnt do that on the first date or shes not looking for that etc. What are your experiences with this occurring and what can I do/how did you overcome it.

To provide some context. Each of the girls will usually tell me via texting or on tinder while the plans are being set up that they don't plan on banging, with some explicitly saying that prior. I may just be dumb by even continuing on and seeing them, but I attempt handle that by agree and amplify. Additionally, I always tell the girl to wear something sexy for whatever we are doing. They usually comply with that.

Thanks