To make this as short as possible, I have a girl who we have both shown mutual interest of getting into an LTR, however in one night where we got to 2nd base a few weeks ago, she transitioned to "let's just be friends". The reason is that somehow I shot myself in the foot that I'll move to Denmark in a year from now, so her rationality was to "avoid being hurt".

Note that she's a virgin (actual one, no bullshitting) and her relationship history includes only one guy which she soured the relationship by herself since he forced her to put out (verified this with outside sources, quite trustworthy).

Now the reason I'm posting this question is because, with multiple nights of bad sleep I've gotten annoyed that since we've become "just friends" even if there is romantic interest I have to initiate contact every time I talk to her, up until now she never did; where I'm not sure if I've broken frame is that I told her she can't predict the future and who knows what could happen until I'll move to Denmark (the move isn't confirmed yet, not until June next year).