Did I over react by breaking up with LTR?

misls · 2019-09-01T18:15:48+00:00

4 months LTR met a guy, went out to movies and to eat with him alone.

You fucked up long before even that happened, question isn't whether you over-reacted by breaking up with your LTR. She's not a LTR, she's a hoe. She already sees you as a little beta bitch for staying with her despite her going on a "Date" with a guy to the movies who she probably blew later.

You should read the sidebar.

[deleted] · 2019-09-01T19:11:10+00:00

I would have broken up after the first sentence of your post.

You fucked up majorly with the rest of it.

fuckGuilt · 2019-09-01T20:33:40+00:00

You seem young.

Here's the thing....LTR's are TRP on hard mode, and you're probably too young to deal with that.

All I infer about you is that you're young. I don't know if you have a mission in life, I don't know if you lift, I don't know if you have friends, all that jazz.

Coming from the right place, what a woman does when she's not with you is none of your damned business. Does she behave well when with you, or not? If not, next. If so, who the fuck cares?

TRP is not for everyone, and might not be for you. You might be best off in the Matrix. None of us can tell you that.

But if you want to unplug, rule number 1 is lifting. Your entire post is relationship focused, not focused on you, what you need, and how you can live your life in the best way possible. Lifting is the beginning of remaking yourself as the best possible you.

Lift like your life depends on it. Find your mission in life. Carve out a good existence for yourself, faced with the incentives that you're faced with.

Don't put so much into your next woman. Sidebar, esp. the bitch management parts. Women are a lagging indicator of success, and are meant to be a delicacy to enjoy. They should be about #5 on your priority list, after health, career, family, hobbies.

Once more, what some bitch is doing when you're not with her is none of your damned business, but that only counts if you make yourself the prize.

Good luck!

taway987123456 · 2019-09-01T20:29:08+00:00

Didnt need to read past the first line.

She has disrespected you, move on and next her.

failingtheturingtest · 2019-09-01T22:19:42+00:00

Your LTR was dating someone else and making you feel like an arsehole for pointing it out.

[deleted] · 2019-09-02T00:58:07+00:00

U should have dropped her the second she went with the guy dude holy fuck. There was another thread on here about a guys girl going out for drinks with another guy last month look it up it had like 200 upvotes. Bitch is probably sending him nudes man. Your hamstering and wanted to check her phone made you loose frame. You dont need that stress. You should have DROPED HER. Block and message her again!

[deleted] · 2019-09-01T20:40:00+00:00

You did the right thing. Look on the bright side, better she did that now than marrying you, having kids then doing it Blessing in disguise!

whirling_cynic · 2019-09-01T19:51:02+00:00

Next. Read the sidebar.

Hedser91 · 2019-09-01T23:32:00+00:00

Normally I'm inclined to see it from both perspectives. In this case, you should have never gotten involved with this girl. Its good that its ended now. Find a girl who respects you.

vullnet123 · 2019-09-01T22:02:40+00:00

Did the right thing for sure

AlleyFrog96 · 2019-09-01T21:16:56+00:00

First of all, why are you dating in 2019 still?

HurricaneHugues · 2019-09-01T21:07:35+00:00

"4 months LTR met a guy, went out to movies and to eat with him alone. I told her I don’t like it when she goes out one on one with another guy. "

What the fuck kind of weak shit is this? A prerequisite for a COMMITTED and MONOGAMOUS relationship is respect and commitment to one another. That means no hanging out one on one with members of the opposite sex, especially not in a "date" setting. That's like you hiring a new employee who turns out to be stealing from the company account, and all you do is have a talk with them. Fire that fucking bitch, you clown.

You wasted your time "talking" to her about your "boundaries" instead of just reinforcing them. You should've just cut her off completely as soon as you found out. Now delete her number and text thread, delete her and her closest friends off ALL your social media, and move on. Don't ever speak or text this silly bitch another day of your natural life in this galaxy.

Lateralanouncer · 2019-09-01T21:19:32+00:00

Unless she is begging you to stay together. It’s likely She played you and wanted you to brake up.

Title	Did I over react by breaking up with LTR?
Author	fortknox1997
Upvotes	19
Comments	31
Date	September 1, 2019 6:11 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/cyddd8/did_i_over_react_by_breaking_up_with_ltr/
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"4 months LTR met a guy, went out to movies and to eat with him alone. I told her I don’t like it when she goes out one on one with another guy. "