Disliking night gaming

SirKolbath · 2019-09-08T13:42:58+00:00

I follow a similar path. TRP is about doing what you want to do without regard for what women tell you they think they want you to do.

You are not wrong to focus on your career and health and avoiding alcohol and other drugs. Your only error is in worrying what this does to your SMV. Never make any decisions based on what women may think. Make those decisions based on what you think.

my_mix_still_sucks · 2019-09-08T15:23:49+00:00

Of course it won't reduce your smv, you'll miss out on some opportunities to get laid but pussy is not everything and tbh some of the pussy you get in clubs youd be better off without.

So if you feel like night game is not for you than that's completely fine but if you don't talk to and try to get AT Least one girls number a week during your day to day life then your hamster wheel is just spinning really hard imo ("oh im not that type of guy" "she wasn't my type anyways")

VasiliyZaitzev · 2019-09-08T18:50:58+00:00

It will increase your SMV if you are working on your body and getting good sleep.

What it will reduce is your opportunity to meet club sluts for fun.

So long as you are day-gaming then you can make up the pussy deficit. I prefer to day game, actually. And then you can use evenings for dates/meet ups that don't involved getting sloppy in clubs.

sayedhimself · 2019-09-08T13:20:54+00:00

Balance is key. Have your cake and eat it too

[deleted] · 2019-09-08T21:09:09+00:00

I can relate to that. A couple years ago I was all about clubbing and night gaming. Had good days and bad days like most people, but realized that most of my bad days were because I drank too much and that killed my game. I was also feeling tired and was spending a crazy amount of money (lived in a developing country, where the good clubs are crazy expensive in order to prevent poor/ugly people to join the party).

Decided to quit that lifestyle and invest in my mind, body, and career. My results have improved considerably. Just the other day I was with some friends at a bar and sat beside a really hot chick. The fact that I don’t drink really intrigued her and that fueled our conversation. I said I dont do it because I preferred the runner’s high and turns out she was super into fitness. Got her number and invited her for a run at 6AM and she went for it as our first date (!!). Never thought of doing something like this to convey high SMV, but it was super effective and felt zero resistance in having her over to my place to fuck a couple days later.

Jesusfeminist · 2019-09-08T16:14:54+00:00

Blablabla you don’t get laid in the club that’s why you say that

virusofthemind · 2019-09-08T16:06:43+00:00

Are you sure you're not just uncomfortable with the drinking club/bar culture and making excuses?

TotalPigeon · 2019-09-08T17:29:38+00:00

Perhaps you are at the wrong clubs? If you don't enjoy the music or atmosphere your outcome for the night largely depends on getting somewhere with a girl, and preferably asap. Stressful and inefficient way to spend a night, in my opinion, and actually detrimental to meeting someone if you are in a shitty mood.

As far as SMV goes, no, not really related. Being the guy who doesn't club isn't an SMV problem by itself. If you were a complete shut in, though, that would be.

SMV isn't built in a day, it is little things over a long period of time. You can add to it when clubbing by meeting people and boosting your status, but drink / drugs / late nights will detract from it by affecting your health / appearance and also by affecting what you can achieve the day after, when you are hungover or tired.

There are legitimate reasons to not want to bother with clubbing, however:

If you get irrational anxiety when you go out and this topic is an excuse to justify avoiding it, it's because it's outside of your comfort zone. This is what we call a growth opportunity and you ought to seize it. If you keep doing it - your mind will get over the anxiety, and as a direct consequence you will find your ability to hold frame improve. Very good for your SMV! You can make a much better decision on whether you want to go out clubbing or not then.

If this is the case, no bullshitting or rationalizing excuses to avoid doing it (too easy to do).

BusterVadge · 2019-09-08T22:49:02+00:00

Day game. Higher quality of women in general, more challenging, and more fun in my opinion.

Title	Disliking night gaming
Author	LOLUSTUPID_OKAY
Upvotes	14
Comments	11
Date	September 8, 2019 1:05 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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