My ex picked up this Red Pill thing toward the end of our relationship. I never really knew or thought much about it, but I have to say he went from a 7 to a 9 and I was very impressed how he got even hotter as time went on (not something I can say is common in my dating history, sadly). Later I found out it was TRP and pretty much all of it is right on track describing my preferences in men.

I don't mind being a plate, it's not like I'm limiting myself to one guy at a time either unless/until my bioclock decides to tip me over into a new frame at some point, but I did have a problem with being plate #2 in a completely impromptu 3-plate evening. He actually got angry with me when I wasn't down with that (I mean at least warm a girl up to this kind of thing, don't just spring it on some random Wednesday) and I never heard from him again. Not sure who the asshole was in this scenario...

Fast foward to now and I've got this guy I got set up with through a friend (probably the 1st Red Flag). He seemed fine and damn is he fine even read the signals right - like when I told him 'no' after inviting him home for a drink after our first date, well he knew that wasn't a real 'no', right?

Didn't even wait two full days before texting me though (Red Flag deux) asking if I had a good time and apologizing for shitty service at dinner which isn't even his fault to begin with. I mean, I'm the one who's supposed to have the pussy here, amIright?

He wants to set something up for New Years Eve which might work, then starts talking (the whining! Red Fag 3) about how much he's hated the holidays the last couple years because he's been alone and had no one to share them with, blah blah and back again. I'm just like WTF? How is this the same dude I was deepthroating a couple days ago!?

I don't have time to figure out if this guy is a bitch or not. Do you guys think I should just cut bait now, give him another ride and see? Almost feels like I'm the one being shit tested here.

Tell me straight and thanks!