Do you eventually forget about your ex/oneitis?

kissinterlude · 2020-12-09T22:45:30+00:00

Tldr; at the top. Get some fucking professional help, and leave your ex alone. Stop dwelling on the past and for fucksake, stop raw dogging $50 Asian hookers

In your case, yes you are weak, yes you did everything conceivably wrong, and continue to do so.

Remember when your doctor prescribed you anti psychotic meds, and said that you need therapy which you never bothered with

Well here’s the copy pasta from the rest of response and for those who think they’re helping him by reaffirming his deranged world view while he continues to stalk and harass this chick he ‘dated’ for 2 months, nearly two years ago. Prior to that he was a virgin at age 26

The only person here with BPD /NPD is the OP. And even though this is TRP. The ‘ex’ sure as hell dodged a DV killing with this guy.

Annnnndd he’s back, he’s had to resort to buying cracked and stolen reddit and Facebook accounts as he keeps getting banned. I think it was two weeks ago by this account or maybe it was the other that he was stating how he misses her and can’t get over her at all

What his game plan is? Who knows. He just wants sympathy and a pat on the shoulder and to make up stories.

For what ever reason OP keeps deleting his posts (or they’re getting deleted but the following pretty much sums it up if you didn’t bother to check his already cucked post history)

Do you ever give up ? What answer are you looking for. Here’s one. You are the epitome of red flags. You’re so far below beta, that you can’t even be called male. No wonder she dumped your crazy ass.

You got dumped by her over 18 months ago, and you’re still pining on about her. Stop stalking her, stop following her, stop abusing her on social media. Remember she reported you to the cops.

You need some serious medical intervention dude, and probably some time in the psyche ward

You need to work on your mental issues, address your skinny fat thing so your shrivelled penis (yes he’s posted it after asking if this is herpes from a paid whore he fucked the night before) Own your 5’6 balding, underbite and workout. Trying and increase your value from a -10 to at least a 2. And try getting a job you can stick at for more than a month before complaining about it, and how the people there think you’re weird and antisocial

You may remember the OP as posting from one of the many various accounts below, whether it’s him going on in asktrp, gambling, hairloss and side effects, to posting pics of his junk with ‘spots’ asking if it’s herpes after he slept with a sex worker the night before, to continually going on about his ex of over two years ago, ragging on her, then pining over her, never taking the advice offered by people, to stalking her.

He’s now progressed to buying ‘established accounts’ both Reddit and Facebook after being banned from both platforms.

Please be very careful with the advice and support provided to him as it may eventually support his world view, and we end up with him being front page news in a Melbourne after his ex goes missing

These are his other accounts, half of which have been banned or deleted now. If I’ve missed any, or you’ve picked up any others - pretty easy to determine his writing style and content feel free to keep me know.

docent3434 · 2020-12-09T23:16:19+00:00

This lad should be banned.

falecf4 · 2020-12-10T00:41:01+00:00

Where do you live bro? I'll come console you and teach you the ways of life. It's one quick lesson of a firm punch in the fucking face. No charge, me being able to help is all the payment I need!

Project_Zero_Betas · 2020-12-09T22:39:44+00:00

You again.

BetteClaussen · 2020-12-09T23:11:12+00:00

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Don_Draper27 · 2020-12-09T22:28:25+00:00

Yes, you step thinking about them when you are inside another vagina. Until then, read the sidebar.

comcain · 2020-12-10T03:55:29+00:00

She was the ONLY bang you've ever had. Get off Reddit and get therapy. I'm tired of reading your posts twice a day.

2020-12-09T22:29:32+00:00

Fuck more women.

MadeThisinTheHosp · 2020-12-09T23:18:37+00:00

Idk. This the truth bro. We all have our muse. There is a girl i still randomly tjink about 10 years later but there is no pain or yearning for her anymore.

Will you ever get your dream car? No. Dream house? No. Dream job? No. -probably- your dreams won't come true, because we live in reality.

But you can be happy with your current house, car, and job.

Think of girls as the same. Sure, I still have my dream girl. But im also happy with the pussy I'm inside of

Prize-Thought-4205 · 2020-12-10T01:21:48+00:00

Lol get in line, it's been 2 and a half years for me and my first one-itis. Banged all of my friends and I couldn't get over that. All the betrayal... backstabs, lies, lying by omission, treachery.

Until I did. How? I had sex with objectively better women than her and then easily convinced myself she was a piece of shit human being & I shouldn't of let her so deeply into my life anyway, there were a shit ton of red flags in the first couple months we knew each other but I kept pursuing & pursuing, digging & digging with my blue pill kissless virgin self.

Ahh, college was fun, but still a time to be a stupid kid, now you're an adult. I feel no resentment, no pain, no regerts, there's just the lingering thought of what happened but I don't pity myself anymore or act like some traumatic broken bitch who takes it out on others. I see the beauty in new women, in everything I come across in life and enjoy it much more knowing how blissful is it to be in a mentally good state without any toxic people in your life. This is the key secret here, if you're not improving both yourself and your life circumstances you will still be stuck in that rut you were a year & a half ago.

Its true, in a way you don't magically completely forget about your one-itis or whatever led you to TRP but you move past the anger phase and into the next journey of your life, or like I said you can be woo is me depressed know shit about life loser forever.

So get the fuck off Reddit for a couple months and go get shit done.

BetteClaussen · 2020-12-10T02:44:23+00:00

Ew bro, you will get over her if you get your shit together. I’ve known my wife 8 years now and the only time I call her princess is when she’s being a little brat lol

throw-away-1709 · 2020-12-10T07:55:30+00:00

Your 'princess'.

After children and menopause she'll be your wobbly nagging landwhale who grabs deep lines in your face when you do the xls table how expensive the divorce from the dead bedroom is.

Are you a prince? Are you a king?

Then you should have no problem having a loyal royal higness at your side.

How to get rid of that feeling.

For every situation you still have feeeelllzzz write the name on a postcard - look at your feeellll while you burn her name.

Called burning ritual - works wonders.

RunawayGrain · 2020-12-10T17:28:36+00:00

Meet your princess in ten years when she's gained a few tons and her looks are sliding. Your brain is now fully awake instead of having half of it thinking about boning her. You talk for a few and realize a lot of 'her' was just your mind pinning your image of the perfect girl onto her mortal coil. Later you wind up asking yourself what you were thinking.

Title	Do you eventually forget about your ex/oneitis?
Author	BetteClaussen
Upvotes	0
Comments	45
Date	December 9, 2020 10:26 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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