Does anyone else apply TRP principles consistently in their lives but not really go out and meet women?

incognitodoritos · 2016-02-11T04:55:55+00:00

I've been in an LTR for five years. I'm 22. It's like my girlfriend with whom Ive spent lots of time with hasn't even noticed how much I've improved as a person. It's as if she was OK with the way I acted and the things that I accomplished before I began improving myself.Now I think shes not good enough for me.

You don't need her to notice. You aren't doing this for her.

Honestly I think after high school then you're already at a point in life where if anyone isn't moving forward with you then it's time to leave them behind.

So I go out to the bars with buddies I meet women and I just think to myself the entire time "If I don't get to sleep with her I just wasted my time because this person isn't worthy of my time."

Well you go out with your buddies to have a good time and whether you meet a woman you're going to sleep with is independent of that. So just take it as a fun and flirty encounter and not waste another thought on it.

Also, you don't "get" to do anything. You are the prize. She gets to sleep with you.

Does anyone else here feel like this? That they have set for themselves standards that they have met that are just too high for other people to meet? Rarley do I encounter someone who I'm actually compelled to get to know because I want to have a social interaction with them especially women.

Are you only looking for people who are completely RP?

huge_gap · 2016-02-11T14:56:35+00:00

If your standards are "too high" then you're not doing it right. Ever cold approach an 8? 9?

I guarantee you don't look at beautiful women and say "naw" because your standards are too high. Instead, you're just buffering yourself from an uncomfortable situation.

Re-think how you really feel. Sounds like you're just comfortable and don't feel the need to approach or chase attractive girls because you're complacent.

megasmitsos · 2016-02-11T09:29:02+00:00

I've been reading rp for a while but I rarely comment. Rp is a great way to carry yourself. However if I meet people who cheat I don't let them in my circle. I see them as liars. Dump her ass and fuck whoever you want. Or stay faithful like your word means something.

Clint_Redwood · 2016-02-11T13:08:14+00:00

It's like my girlfriend with whom Ive spent lots of time with hasn't even noticed how much I've improved as a person.

Are you looking for her to give you a pat on the back and say, "Good job buddy!"? Don't pay attention to what she says, just because she hasn't verbalized it doesn't mean it hasn't effected her. Pay attention to her actions. Are you guy fucking more? Is she more submissive? Does she do things for you more now? Do you guys fight less? Does she never nag? Is she more happy and giddy around you like a little kid? As you become more stoic and grounded, more manly, she will become more feminine and childlike. The yin to the yang. As you become more masculine she will become more feminine. That's how you know if she is noticing.

Not with words or praise.

Now I think shes not good enough for me.

She might not be. but, if you have no other experience with women then you are effectively walking in the dark here. How do you know what she ranks? Have you dated high quality girls before?

My rule for anyone new to TRP is 20 girls minimum before you even have a baseline understanding of what you do and don't want out of a girl. I only sleep with maybe 5 chicks before i got into a 4 year LTR and engagement. I didn't have a fucking clue what i wanted out of a girl. If I meet her today she wouldn't last a week before a NEXT.

"If I don't get to sleep with her I just wasted my time

You are building social skills. Practicing being charismatic, building social proof for your social circles. building pre-selection and dread if you're girl is with you. Ever had chicks hit on you only for your girl to take you back home and fuck you like it's her last night on earth?

Rarely do I encounter someone who I'm actually compelled to get to know because I want to have a social interaction with them especially women.

Yes, starting out. This is still anger phase. It's not overt pissed off anger phase like the guys that get divorce raped after 20 years. but it's subsiding anger phase. With time you will find yourself becoming more humble with the wisdom trp teaches. TRP starting gives you a sour taste in your mouth no matter how beta or alpha you were before finding it. Eventually you accept that it's just nature and people are designed/programmed from evolution. No point at being bitter at the universe for being the universe.

WrensPens · 2016-02-11T08:07:34+00:00

So because your girlfriend loved you when you weren't as good, that makes her less worthy? If she didn't like you before, but liked you now, wouldn't that be shallow?

everythingisthrown · 2016-02-11T07:33:58+00:00

Yes. I don't give a shit to go out and meet women. I just fuck the ones I know whenever I feel like it.

Title	Does anyone else apply TRP principles consistently in their lives but not really go out and meet women?
Author	p00nbrigade
Upvotes	13
Comments	17
Date	February 11, 2016 3:22 AM UTC (10 years ago)
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