So I understand it was pretty popular 2 decades ago, and all the way up to 2015 or so. But does it still work in 2020? If you didn't approach in 2020, then what about 2019?
I feel like it's close to impossible to not be incel anymore (if you're average or below). On dating apps you'll get 0 matches, and even if you do, it won't lead to anywhere. What was the ratio I heard around here before? 50 to 100+ matches per 1 lay in 2018-2019? It's even worse now. You'd probably need even more thna that too, depending on location (quarantine matches doesn't count btw). Not to mention the massive time waste in trying to get a meetup, let alone a lay.
If you approach IRL, every girl knows exactly what you're doing too, thanks to youtubers, youtube videos with millions of views. They know you're just trying to fuck and that you approached 100+ women before her.
And what if you're mildly autistic/aspergers, have a speech impediment / don't speak clearly, and you're unable to be "loud" in clubs and stuff. Do you just rope at that point or wtf?
Feels like it was so much better before. For one, online dating, dating apps etc actually worked, and approaching did too I feel like.
What do you do in 2020 if you're ugly and gymmaxxed (more or less. Doesn't take long to reach the natty limit). You have no social circle. Do you just approach? What is better if you're on the bad looking side? Day or night game? Do you get surgery?
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