Does being a 32 y/o student, working a part-time menial job to make ends meet, lower my SMV?

RedEyeBlackEye1 · 2020-09-27T08:25:36+00:00

Yeah,

BUT, AND THIS IS A HUUUUGE BUT...

...YOUR JOB/SALARY DOES NOT MAKE YOU THE MOST "ALPHA" OR MOST ATTRACTIVE GUY IN THE ROOM.

Smv is like building a character,there are many aspects to it bc SMV IS A SUM OF ITS PARTS.

If your job/money stat is low,focus on leveling up your body/physique stat,your charisma stat,your swagger/body language stat,grow a short beard or stubble,then shape/trim/groom that sucker religiously + get a haircut that goes good with your face shape,congrats you just raised your looks stat.

SMV IS MOSTLY:(in no particular order)

1)JOB/SOCIAL STATUS(and this is often relative to location/venue/situation.)

2)MONEY

3)HEIGHT

4)FACIAL LOOKS/HAIR/GROOMING

5)BODY LOOKS/PHYSIQUE/SWAGGER

6)GAME/CHARISMA/ETC

7) INTELLIGENCE/MENTAL/SPIRITUAL

EVERY ASPECT OF "YOU" PLAYS A HUUUUGE ROLE IN HOW BITCHES PERCEIVE "YOU" AND YOUR SMV.

NOT. JUST.YOUR.JOB/BANK ACCOUNT.

THATS HOW A BETABUX THINKS.

Make enough money to pay your expenses,live decent,afford to eat and drink what you want,be able to save little each paycheck(minimum $75-$100+), and pay for an unexpected expenses(should it pop up).

You SHOULD strive to increase your earning potential,but does every "alpha" have to make 80k - 200k+? NO!

Stay in your Lane and play to your strengths.

Guy A: 5'8 - 6'4,masculine swaggering,moviestar good looking,rockstar charisma,swole v-taper,broad shoulders looking like Superman or some shit,decently dressed,well groomed,good inner/outer game, decently intelligent,decent money.

Guy B: some average looking,skinnyfat,no muscle,no broad shoulders,no swagger,no game,no charisma,lameass clown who thinks making 100k+ and driving a Benz(or Audi)makes Him the most alpha most attractive guy in the room.

Unless the girl needs her bills paid or wants a fancy dinner date(and she doesn't already have a Guy B for that), then Guy A mops up the floor with Guy B 9/10 times.

If both guys walk through a room, MOST WOMEN WILL SEE GUY A AS THE GUY THEY WOULD LET RAVISH THEM.

IF THEY PAY ATTENTION TO GUY B AT ALL,he's the guy they'd let take them on an expensive dinner date,carriage ride through the park,brag about his "new luxury vehicle",then she might give him some boring vanilla sex(or just a peck on the cheek)...to hook him as a betabux.

Then, go and let GUY A ravish her fucking brains out no holds barred all night long.

Alpha fux/beta bux...

Disclaimer: every guy that makes lots of money and has "high status" job IS NOT A BETA...BUT ALOT OF THEM ARE.

good luck, stay safe

INNASKILLZ2K18 · 2020-09-27T06:05:04+00:00

Unfortunately yes.

Women get offered dick all over the shop. They have other criterion beyond looks to ascertain what guys stand above the rest.

An amount of career success, ambition, proven ability stands out.

Don't mean you betabux her...but you have the signs which build attraction.

You might have to make up for it with a solid gym body and tight game.

KryptonytDeLatinas · 2020-09-27T07:26:06+00:00

Hardly... only at weddings and shit like that... But how your framing it sounds like it might be on your mental in a negative way having broader reaching repercussions

frognads · 2020-09-27T08:34:25+00:00

Yes it does lower your smv. But you're doing it to increase your smv so it's better than doing nothing. Head down uncle.

boy_named_su · 2020-09-27T13:37:49+00:00

Eh, I did my MBA around that age, and worked in a coffee shop and I got laid more than ever

absolutelynp · 2020-09-27T09:01:09+00:00

In general it does. However when you are totally cool with it and very confdent in the future you are building, it doesnt lower it too much. (On the other hand just imagine the energy you would radiate when finished, no comparsion!). The fact that you posted here and thus may have doubts is a sign that you have some doubts over it. Im in the same place at the moment. Id say dont expect too much and just look forward to the future.

BlondeHornyElf · 2020-09-27T14:04:12+00:00

a buddy of mine is a 30 year old out of shape loser with greying hair and erectile dysfunction... but he gets chicks becuz he goes out and makes friends with girls...

dude has no degrees or accomplishments, can't hold a job to save his life, is on anti-depressants, lives with his mom, thinks the sky is falling, etc.

so what's his secret? he just fucking owns it and talks to girls anyway... he knows how to build trust with a girl and connect with her on an emotional level... and he DJs parties sometimes, that's it.

BigBoyTouche2799 · 2020-09-27T08:37:21+00:00

Well most 32 year olds are looking for people more set up in life. As they probably are themselves. And if you’re going for a younger crowd you as a 32 year old needs something other than your personality that a girl a decade younger than you would want. This could honestly be a shitpost if I couldn’t already tell that you’re serious.

HillaryLostTheEC · 2020-09-27T12:16:07+00:00

Save your money (don't ever tell a women your salary). Just be general about your career, if she asks what you do, just say I work in the "... Field". Be fashionable on a budget. Get jacked. Does your job really matter if you're just trying to bang or have a girlfriend? Nah. Marriage though, obviously matters.

thrwy75479 · 2020-09-27T13:46:31+00:00

Nah, you're working towards something better.

I'm not looking for a gf

In that case, it really doesn't matter. For casual shit, she doesn't even have to know what you do.

BigBootyAfficianado · 2020-09-28T15:55:38+00:00

Just tell people your job is "student". If you're studying something cool that's all they need to know. You said you're going to have a career so say you're "studying to become an X"

Your side jobs aren't your "career" so no need to mention them. Or just bring it up off-handedly.

The_Rational_Toilet · 2020-09-27T06:05:05+00:00

Fuck good and stimulate her mind thats all that's bitches care about.

Get her to "feel" you are a high value man.

Make her orgasm on command.

Greek-God-Brody · 2020-09-27T09:12:28+00:00

One thing you don't want to do is hide things about yourself. I've done this too and the girls just sense something is off with you and makes them not trust you. So many dates have gotten nowhere because of this. I thought I was being mysterious, but you have to reveal a bit about yourself, share a bit about your story.

You have to fully assume / own who you are

Title	Does being a 32 y/o student, working a part-time menial job to make ends meet, lower my SMV?
Author	canceleee
Upvotes	3
Comments	21
Date	September 27, 2020 5:58 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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