Does being a virgin make me less attractive?

User8184849 · 2020-04-19T17:48:01+00:00

Just lie

jst_whtevir · 2020-04-19T18:06:55+00:00

No, but how being a virgin translates into viewing yourself as inferior/lacking and hence sabotaging yourself in social situations does more often than not make you "less attractive".

Try to accept your flaws, this being one of them, and work towards eliminating them or their causes. Your success is heavily dependent upon your mindset. Now go and better yourself.

FinancialThanks1 · 2020-04-19T17:40:49+00:00

No. The fact that you’re a virgin makes you nervous about sex which makes you less attractive. Luckily you don’t have to be nervous.

Don’t ask girls for sex

2020-04-19T20:20:52+00:00

Dont tell the girls youre a virgin.

Chadster113 · 2020-04-19T17:56:48+00:00

Yes girls want experience

MinCad · 2020-04-19T18:03:50+00:00

Pre-selection is an attraction trigger.

Being a virgin implies you lack pre-selection.

You do the math.

MGTOW_BEASTMODE · 2020-04-19T17:44:16+00:00

No. How would a girl even know?

dudedoodickle · 2020-04-19T18:51:33+00:00

if it is something that bothers you or affects you in a negative way then yes. You can literally say out loud to everyone that you are a virgin and own it, it is how you frame it, how you present it which makes others react a certain way. Don't put a label on yourself.

There was a time where I overdid booze at a party and I literally said to everyone in the room dead serious that I have a short but thick cock. Not my proudest moment, but whatever. 2 hours later some bitch still sucked on it.

Huntbutt · 2020-04-19T19:24:05+00:00

"and ask them for sex" lol what? imagine how creepy this would be. "Hi babe...can I go in you ????? :D "

alphakari · 2020-04-19T19:36:58+00:00

Lie about it. Abundance is much harder to show to a girl who knows you're a virgin.

PinacoladaSauce · 2020-04-19T23:29:56+00:00

No but you being concerned about it does.

What’s the worst that happens? she rejects you? Stop concerning yourself with this shit. do shit that pulls you out of your comfort zone

MattyAnon · 2020-04-20T03:12:24+00:00

escalate and ask them for sex

Well, you don't ask.

You do escalate, but it's all non verbal.

Yes being a virgin makes you less attractive, so don't tell anyone. Just act like you've had sex until you have.

And don't pussy out next time. Accept the first few times will be challenging and just learn to accept (and enjoy) all of it.

TehJimmyy · 2020-04-19T21:24:13+00:00

robot3000_01 · 2020-04-20T11:37:17+00:00

Shows your inability to fuck other women and pass your genes on

thelizardcave · 2020-04-20T11:50:22+00:00

Absolutely not. It's such a tiny thing in the long run, and lost their virginities by 18 years old. Don't put so much weight on virginity. People don't become sex gods over night as they lose their virginity, and being a virgin doesn't mean that you can't be a good lover anyways. If you are still worried about it, remember that you are never obligated to tell someone you're a virgin if you really don't want to.

TenCondiments · 2020-04-21T07:50:26+00:00

no, not at your age. In fact, there are certain situations where it might be advantageous and hot to some women that you are. I'm not saying you need to disclose it like it's an STD, lol, but if a girl is thinking about having sex with you, you being a virgin is very unlikely to stop her. This isn't a movie.

cfbovernfl · 2020-04-19T19:40:24+00:00

So you didn't hook up with anyone then. Hooking up means sex. And yeah, it does if they figure it out, so just don't give it away.

wyota · 2020-04-19T23:30:02+00:00

Ask "is it ok if we cuddle?" Then if she says yes, say "can I see your boobs?" If she say yes, ask "can we have sex?"

Title	Does being a virgin make me less attractive?
Author	Pegando-Culo69
Upvotes	18
Comments	47
Date	April 19, 2020 5:34 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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