Does losing your virginity have any tangible physiological effects?

-drukpa-kunley- · 2017-01-22T15:30:38+00:00

It all depends on the experience, and what it took to get there.

If you work hard and improve yourself and finally bang that girl you find attractive and she is in to you; feels good, man.

If you bang the fuggo, or an escort who isn't in to you; feels bad, man.

Now if you're really hung up on it, it might be worth it to go to an escort and get it over with, because then you won't have that mental block. But I've heard of guys doing that and it was an underwhelming experience for them. Because there was no emotional content. Only you can make that decision.

It sounds like you are putting a lot of emphasis/value on the virgin thing. The question is why do you need to get over it? In what way will your life be different when you are not a virgin?

ingenjor · 2017-01-22T15:57:33+00:00

It's like they say, sex is only a huge deal until you've had it. I'd say yeah, you'll feel different. No reason to become desperate, though; just keep working towards it.

I'd like to add that having it one time might not be enough. You might convince yourself it was a fluke. When you've had it a few times you are secure in the knowledge that you can get it again and again as long as you apply yourself.

shaclad · 2017-01-22T16:31:03+00:00

Physiological - No, your body will not undergo any physical changes

Psychological - Yes, you will now have a sense of accomplishment and confidence having finally achieved a life goal

quicklogaccount · 2017-01-23T00:21:22+00:00

If you do something you think is unworthy, you have a chance of regretting it hard. Some guys never overcome losing it to an escort. Maybe you'll fell like that if you bang a fugly chick. That must suck.

If you don't screw it, absolutely nothing changes. You get a high of confidence that lasts for some time. After it, you're the same, but you don't worry about being a virgin anymore. If worrying is taking your energies, maybe you'll feel a lot better. It didn't take my energies anymore when I got laid, I worried so long and so much that I learned how to distract myself.

I'm thinking about just settling and having sex with some 5/10 girl or something.

I never heard of a guy that regretted banging a fugly to get rid of the stigma, but better safe than sorry. It's about the mindset, if you're already looking down on the idea, maybe you'll end up regretting it.
There's always some chicks that are REALLY biased towards a trait or traits you're strong at.
You CAN find a girl, on your league or one level lower at worst (maybe you'll be cool with two), that is biased towards you and will be willing to have sex with little effort.
If you're on the 8, 9 or 10 level on looks, some 6s and 7s will be REALLY easy to score. If you're under that, maybe take some time looking.

oldredder · 2017-01-23T04:38:00+00:00

Not really. It's having lots of practice that makes you better at it and better able to enjoy sex.

Title	Does losing your virginity have any tangible physiological effects?
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Date	January 22, 2017 3:09 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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