does TRP consider it breaking frame if I call my girlfriend an asshole when she is in fact being an asshole?

FereallyRed · 2019-05-30T13:48:24+00:00

Arguing with a toddler. Classy.

MattyAnon · 2019-05-30T14:03:18+00:00

She went from 0-100 uber cunt yelling

Drop her off ASAP, never see her again.

SalporinRP · 2019-05-30T14:32:57+00:00

Why would you date someone like that. Unless it was some one-time thing and she apologized profusely afterwards and provided an apology BJ I would seriously consider the future of the relationship. If she's that much of a cunt about looking for something in the car imagine how much of a cunt she'd be about something important?

Also don't get into the name-calling game nothing good can come from it.

Redy4Action · 2019-05-30T13:36:07+00:00

Yes.

You're visibly angered by her comments, responding to her tests indicate you broke frame and entered hers. Getting into a shouting match with your s/o is by far the worst thing to do and definitely not what TRP advocates.

Don't let her piss you off - realize that your life is more than silly fights and stay focused on your mission.

Good luck!

bigdaddypapadad · 2019-05-30T13:46:27+00:00

You sounds like a bitch lol

arcwhy · 2019-05-30T13:34:54+00:00

Imagine it this way, would your dad say that to you? Or, would you say that to a kid?

Psychological_Radish · 2019-05-30T17:04:55+00:00

Not long ago my FWB was driving me around in her car getting frustrated because she couldn't figure out her directions. I poked fun of her a bit - "are you dumb, baby?" - and she sharply told me to stop. Didn't like her tone. When she tried to continue our conversation as if nothing happened, I calmly told her that I don’t talk to girls who are nasty. Then I pulled out my phone and ignored her.

Her: "I just don't want you to make fun of me while I'm driving."

Me: "I don't care."

Didn’t take long for her to apologize. Getting into an argument (or giving in easily) shows that you lack Game. Demonstrate, do not explicate. However, if she starts yelling and screaming profanities, that isn't a shit test. It's a sign that she already lacks respect for you. Short of a profuse apology, that should result in a permanent demotion.

[deleted] · 2019-05-30T16:34:47+00:00

If you do it with amused mastery and while laughing its totally fine. If you do it from an angry frame then you're doing it wrong.

Title	does TRP consider it breaking frame if I call my girlfriend an asshole when she is in fact being an asshole?
Author	csawyer86
Upvotes	0
Comments	10
Date	May 30, 2019 1:30 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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