Dread working against me

MattyAnon · 2016-12-07T01:13:41+00:00

"turns her off" - unlikely. I bet it turns her on. She's trying to control though.

Just don't discuss it with her. "This subject turns you off, lets talk about something else"

mabden · 2016-12-06T23:05:13+00:00

when other girls interact with me, text me, call me, etc when im with her that it "turns her off."

If the roles were reversed and she was accepting/interacting with other dudes, when she is supposed to be with me (my time is valuable, too valuable to listen/watch her game some other dude) then I would show her the door and soft next.

any ways to fix her?

No. She is being honest with you. You are not listening. When you want to spin plates, do it on your own time, not time allocated for her. Otherwise, you will drop her. If you DNGAF, then keep doing what you are doing and eventually she will stop spinning for you.

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Apexk9 · 2016-12-06T22:48:40+00:00

Shea still fucking you... so nothing.

htbf · 2016-12-07T01:48:27+00:00

Why are you interacting with other girls while with her ?

RedSkeller · 2016-12-07T00:00:40+00:00

I could put my phone on silent

All_Ads_Deceive · 2016-12-07T00:14:38+00:00

It's disrespect which triggers her ASD. A confident rich man doesn't flaunt how rich he is. A confident guy with abundance doesn't need to flaunt texts and calls from other women.

Turn your phone on silent and don't let her see it. Proper dread means you will leave and fuck someone else if she doesn't put out. It means you'll drop her for crossing lines. If you dread a girl who is putting out, you're trying too hard

Triadis3 · 2016-12-07T07:43:24+00:00

That's not dread, it's disrespect.

Dread is having her think she's not the only girl.

You're rubbing her nose in it like a dog who shit on the rug.

I'm amazed she stayed X10.

When you're with a girl, be WITH that girl.

You don't discuss your other plates. Important distinction - she should "think" you are a player.

"Better to keep your mouth shut and be thought a fool than to open it and prove it."

IIlllIllIIIllIl · 2016-12-07T04:16:06+00:00

Might've moved on from a shit test to a comfort test. "Am I worth this guys time?" Read up on them.

LordThunderbolt · 2016-12-09T16:06:37+00:00

She doesn't mind you having other girls, she just wants your full attention when she's around. Its fairly reasonable, considering you said she's a good plate. Texting, calling, or any other form of communication u use with other girls while she's around is just rude and unnecessary dread, considering you said she's been a good plate. Its not much to ask, for u to have a little bit of decency.

PantsonFire1234 · 2016-12-07T03:07:29+00:00

turns her off

she wants you to commit

desno · 2016-12-06T23:45:29+00:00

Spend less time with her then. If it's getting annoying, you can half jokingly say "Maybe I should visit them instead then?" Literally don't give a fuck. Watch her get horrified but then stick to you like a fly on shit.

Title	Dread working against me
Author	a_regular
Upvotes	4
Comments	33
Date	December 6, 2016 10:11 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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