Long story short:

  1. Met girl years back in hospital. We made out.

  2. Years later I remember her name I search her up on Fb. Add her. We talk for a bit, nothing happens. I unfriend.

  3. A week ago I liked one of her status` on a mutual friend. She adds me.

  4. I send an intro msg, which she sees but doesn't respond to. A couple days after I just unfriend again.

  5. Days later (today) she messages back and also adds "Why do you always unfriend me?" I reply "It's nothing personal" then quickly move on talking usual smalltalk. She presses further with "Lol it is personal. Why lol?" but I completely ignore it and keep talking, and she responds.

  6. We keep smalltalking but after a lull in our conversation she brought it up again "Why do you always unfriend me".

This is a girl whom I made out with in a hospital like 7 years ago, and our specific disease made us understand eachother a bit more. Other than that she has no reason to even care why I unfriend but she keeps asking.

I know that if I try to defend myself or argue with her, I'll look weak & such. At this point as far as TRP goes i'm in uncharted territory, as in I have no idea how to respond by maintaining frame.

Keep in mind she has two kids and lives in the US so I have no intentions of fucking or dating, just trying to hone my TRP skills.

edit: She was a huge slut/attention whore when I saw her in person, so it could just be she's not used to rejection.