I'm new to TRP and I'm seeking honest feedback about aspects of a LTR that I'm in. Having never been in a LTR before, I want to make sure that I'm not misjudging a situation or making mountains out of mole hills out of potential "red flags".

Here goes:

I met a girl through a dating app a couple of years ago. The first date went well and we began spending a good amount of time together. We became a couple shortly after and I enjoy the time we share together.

However, there are some things that concern me:

She has expressed an interest in getting engaged and has repeatedly asked when I will be proposing to her. Having not been in many relationships, I'm not sure if this is normal or if this is a "red flag". The fact that she is asking to be proposed to kind of takes the magic out of the experience in my opinion and makes that part of the relationship feel like I'm interacting with a pushy used car salesperson. She has been talking about this since about 5 months into the relationship.

Her moods can flip on a dime. She can be very sweet when talking to her but can get nasty through messaging when things aren't going her way. She always apologizes but talking to her in person and dealing with her through messenger can be Jeckyl and Hyde at times.

She makes comments like "you can afford this" when talking about matters involving money even when I'm trying to say that I'm saving money.

Her ambition is limited. Not to give our too many details but she lives with her parents and hasn't held a job in many years. She tells me that she would like to go back to school after she gets married but any plans on her end seem to hang on whether or not I propose to her.

I just want to make sure that she likes me for who I am (not for the resources that I could potentially provide) and get some feedback to help me figure out how to proceed with this relationship.