Feeling empty running game and spinning plates.

Godmode2229 · 2019-10-20T18:04:55+00:00

What do you want? Are you driven by sex, or do you want a connection? Most of red pill isn't about building connection with girls.

Find men to bond with. Fuck women.

IcyBear7 · 2019-10-20T20:54:24+00:00

aite so, this goes against the grain but fuck it. I've been quite a few relationships and had my fair share of hook ups, make outs, one night stands etc.

Yea awalt is awalt but to equate an emotionally damaged girl who titty streams on twitch to someone raised by well adjusted parents is in itself insane. Girls, despite being awalt, exist on a spectrum where you will absolutely find women who will treat you very well and lovingly in a relationship, even for years and years considering you hold up your part of the relationship in not being a useless sack of shit.

There are girls who even stay loyal TOO long and give up their own hypergamic needs to guys who are complete slobs.

don't let trp make you think the rest of your dating life is supposed to be hollow. Awalt is awalt but there's a whole range in between where you can enjoy a fulfulling relationship for however long it was meant to last.

sjswander94 · 2019-10-20T18:23:48+00:00

Connection/Disney romance/love=purple pill goals. Being red is tough because sometimes we want so badly to go back to our programing.we fantasize about being in love and having a special connection. I think an LTR is fine as long as you maintain abundance, don’t become emotionally dependent on her and you fine tune your chick to be how you want. Go for it just make sure that she is always more invested in the relationship than you are.

Jabbermouth · 2019-10-20T18:41:33+00:00

No you’re not doing anything wrong. You may enjoy the LTR/gf experience more than spinning plates. That’s ok. There’s nothing wrong with wanting an LTR, but you shouldn’t feel like you need an LTR.

Just understand that you must still apply red pill strategies even in an LTR and don’t get lazy. After a long period of time spinning plates, it is understandable to want an LTR (grass is always greener etc.).

papunigga031 · 2019-10-20T20:00:41+00:00

Purpose. You have a void you are looking to fill with women. Women will never fill your void. Only fulfillment can.

Find something that you not only want the end results of, but truly enjoy the grind of it as well.

Career doesn’t necessarily equal purpose.

matrixtospartanatLV · 2019-10-20T21:33:13+00:00

You are ready for, “The Unchained Man” by Caleb Jones of Blackdragon fame.

Read it twice and feel the scales drop from your eyes.

PhaedrusHunt · 2019-10-21T07:51:16+00:00

I don't know, might get flamed but have you tried to see any women you actually LIKE?

There's some law of attraction shit, it's hoaky but it works, that you get what you're putting out. Honestly man you seem pretty dark.

I think some we're part of you is still wanting to put too much focus on the woman you're with. I'm married now but I've had times where I was spinning 3 to 6 plates and having lots of random ons situations, kinky sex, blah blah blah. It wasn't necessarily the best times for me overall.

Man you really have to internalize stuff. You're talking about all the techniques you use and I feel like these things should be automatic or just instinctive really. Don't be mechanical.

I honestly feel that if you're forming a genuine connection with that person that's across from you the stuff is going to flow a lot more naturally. You bring out the best in yourself and you're going to attract women to you that are ready for that vibration.

These girls some kind of awkward but I suspect it's because you're making things kind of awkward.

Try not to think so much. Don't worry about if you actually like the girl a little bit that's fine. You SHOULD like her

pieroit · 2019-10-20T23:32:59+00:00

All you need is love

SpinPlates · 2019-10-21T01:42:49+00:00

Fuck better looking women and you will feel more fulfilled.

Title	Feeling empty running game and spinning plates.
Author	ogkushinjapan
Upvotes	9
Comments	20
Date	October 20, 2019 5:24 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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