Long story short, my ex of 4 months posted an old pic that I took of her (a pic of her at the zoo) and a pic that my boy took (an artsy nyc pic) and tagged him in the pic on her social media because it’s been a year since the memories. However, she did not tag me (obviously).

My friends think that she is obviously doing this to try and get some sort of reaction out of me - either she wanted to hurt me or maybe she is signaling that she is still not over me.

Regardless I have been doing no contact for a while, but I did feel some type of way about her posting the pic that I took of her cause those memories are precious to me and I hate to see her use them for social clout or whatever. So I commented on the pic “exciting times” and she commented back “yes. cherished memories” and adds a Purple Heart.

If I’m being honest with you boys (as you can also see from my post history) I am not over my ex. I have been struggling for the last 4 months to move on, but it has been hard. I genuinely love(d) her and for the majority of the relationship she was infatuated with me until the end of course. The relationship ended abruptly over some nonsense that I take responsibility for. I never begged or apologized or any of that, I just left in a cold way.

Part of me thinks that if I hadn’t gone nuclear we could’ve worked through the problem and would still be together. My friends and I believe that I will struggle with this for a much longer time if I don’t get a definite answer that she is over me once and for all. So tomorrow I am thinking about just hitting her up and seeing how it goes.

In this case it will be a rejection is better than regret scenario. I have to know, on some man shit I will actually regret it if I don’t try.

Any advice ?