Sup guys,

I (M37) got back on to tinder after a break of a few years, having sworn off it last time I used it, but the whole covid thing put me in the place where I was ready to go back to it. Got some matches, same story as usual, trying to get a conversation going is often like an uphill struggle, so when you do get a woman that you seem to have something in common with, you ask them if they want to meet up, right? see if you like each other?

The last dates I had all the girls have this expectation that I am going to buy them dinner. I don't even know if I like this person yet, and they want dinner paid for in an expensive restaurant for the privilege of meeting them. I just had one that seemed so nice and was really chatty, and sent me her number without me asking, but when I said, 'lets meet up later?' her answer was, "For Dinner"?

I even met a fucking dentist who makes something like 2 or 3 times more than I do, expecting me to pay for dinner on a first date, not once reaching for her purse.

another girl agreed to meet me one night, and she asked 'what are we going to do?', and I responded, lets go out for a walk, and grab something to drink. Unmatched immediately.

Women are looking for equality, and I am prepared to give it to them. I'm looking for a partner, not a leech.

Women only want one thing, and its fucking DINNER.