Context: I recently just turned 18 a couple of weeks ago and made a tinder account to celebrate. I followed the advice from this sub and have been lifting for 6 months going from 130 to 161 lbs as a 5'8 Asian. Thanks to TRP I took decent pictures of myself and have been getting 2-5 matches a day. I've obtained a date with 2 girls on Sunday and Monday respectively. Again TRP has taught me A LOT about obtaining logistics quickly. Helped me leave my Oneitis behind too.

Problem: I'm pissing myself because even though I've read everything including the sidebar I can't help but be extremely nervous. I've never kissed or even been involved with any girl in my life sexually or romantically. I know about outcome independence, but I'm very afraid of flaking. Even then, I don't know if I'll freeze up and just shut down like I normally do in stressful situations. My friends describe me as socially retarded and I have to agree. In conclusion, I'm terrified, but excited.

Regardless of that, for both dates, I've set it up to be at a coffee shop at 6:30/7:00PM. For the Sunday girl I know the area decently well, but for the Monday girl, it's completely new territory. I can't drive either, no car.

What is a first time tip that can help my situation out?