I used to have oneitis for my crazy “best friend” who friendzoned me to deal with her mental issues. While we were friends, there were so many highs and lows but she was a very passionate and stimulating woman. However, I wanted a girlfriend and I found one. I had to cut off my friend.

I reinitiated contact when I was drunk and asked for nudes. She sent me nudes and honestly she’s the hottest girl I’ve ever spoken to in my life. I remember why I had oneitis for her. Her body and face are beautiful and I cannot stop thinking about her.

However, I love my girlfriend. Sex is good. On paper we are more compatible than my former friend. She has her life sorted out. I can see a future with her. It’s a normal and good relationship. It’s just not as stimulating as with my former oneitis.

My ex-oneitis has family trauma, no job, no friends, no life, social anxiety, only goes to college but she is so interesting to me. She’s very intelligent.

Any advice? The girl keeps asking me to fuck her and I keep looking at her nudes.