So, I’ve been in Iran for a week and am typing this up at the Imam Khomeini International Airport while waiting for my flight back to Dubai.

Some background:

Met M at our Tehran office. She’s beautiful, half Azerbaijani-half Persian with a bright and cheerful personality. HB 9/10 as some would put it. She has a bf who calls her almost every hour (seems like it) to check up on her.

I’m decently high SMV, 6ft1 South Indian origin, from Malaysia. Athletic build. Been gymming a while but not particularly built because I don’t push myself enough. (I weigh about 90kgs)

Story:

There is some mild flirtation between us but no chance to escalate. I hold her hand longer than necessary when shaking hands.

Skipping on to the actual escalation event:

I tell her about my hotel room, and how it has an amazing view. She is interested to check it out, but only for a minute. (which makes sense as Iran has some pretty hardcore laws and penalties for unmarried couples who are caught in hotel rooms together. I’m a bit nervous as well as it’s not my home country and could do without a stint in a random Iranian jail)

She comes up, heads to the balcony and checks out the view. I sidle up beside her and put my arm around her waist. She moves it up to her shoulder. I sense that it’s on and try for a kiss. She pulls away and says she has to leave. I’m like “lets have a drink, just one, then go”. She straightens up her scarf and heads for the door. I follow her and go for another kiss. (Practically pinning her against the door.) She turns her face and I end up getting her cheek. I quickly reach for the light, switch it off and try again. This time she complies. We kiss, and she starts getting really into it. I switch on the light again and we continue kissing while slowly moving to my bed. I keep escalating till her clothes are off and so are mine. She’s wet and ready and I comment on it. I reach for my pants to grab my condom (in wallet as aways) and suddenly she freezes. “you’re going to leave tomorrow”’ “you’re gonna forget about me when you get to dubai” “I won’t see you ever again”. I ignore her and put it on. I kiss her hard and she bits my lip as I slip my cock in.

When the deed is done, I get up to chuck the condom and by the time I’m back (5 seconds in total!) she’s a different person. She just needs to get out of the situation. She is half dressed already and desperately wants out of the room. I hastily put on my clothes and follow her. She insists that she cant see me ever again. I don’t want any blowback so I tell her let me send you home. I get in a cab with her and we end up stopping a few hundred metres from hers. I hold her hand and talk to her casually, walking her till the street corner just by hers. We kiss and she walks home. I call up my friend/potential business partner to pick me up. Time for a night out on the town.

She calls me 3 times between my call to my friend and the 30 minutes it takes him to meet me. She’s worried I might get lost. (Few people speak English here) She whatsapps me asking about the girls I have in dubai and I humorously tell her about the 5 wives, 23 girlfriends and the 8 kids we have and ask her if she’s up for making baby number 9. She’s like ahh so you’re gonna come once a year to make the ninth. The next day she’s all over me at work. Trying to kiss me every chance she gets when no one is looking. I kiss her a couple of times and dismiss her other attempts. She also keeps trying to grab my cock whenever she can. She doesn’t have much sexual experience, but makes up for it in enthusiasm/willingness to follow my commands so she is pretty much my ideal type 

My flight leaves in 40 minutes and I’ve gotta head to the gate. I’ll be in Dubai for a day then I fly to Egypt. I’ll keep y’all updated on my adventures and misadventures there.

Lessons Learnt:

1) Switching off the lights changes the environment drastically and apparently instantly disarmed her resistance. I will try again and let you know if this is a consistent strategy.

2) Ignoring LMR is a legitimate strategy. Though I’m not even sure if it really was LMR since she didn’t actually say NO or a variant of that.

3) I probably should have built some comfort by cuddling after the sex. Would that have changed the outcome much, I wonder? Any other thoughts?