Hi AskTRP, first feild report for me. My game has come a long way since this trp yada yada, still have a long way to go, but my work seems more and more cut out for me.

I went on an OKCupid date last night with a 26 y/o cutie, I'm 24. Drinks and wings. The forwardness began when we licked each others fingers at the table (a little weird but hey, maybe we're both a little weird). Conversation was pretty good: university experience, arts, music, family situation... she seemed very interesting and interested! After starting our second round of beer, I have her come sit next to me on the bench side of the table. Arm around her, little bit of grab ass, sexy talk, eventually I'm rubbing her crotch over pants; things are getting hot and heavy. Great! We talk about the possibility of meeting in the bathroom, but when I used the bathroom, it was a very public situation so that got squashed. We decided to get the bill and go to my car. She rode a bike to the bar (weather last night was beautiful), so I loaded it into my hatch-back and drove towards her house. She lives with her mom and brother and they were home, so going inside wasn't an option last night. The back seat of my car was taken by her bike, so I diddled her in the front seat, she touched my tra-la-la, and we had convo/ dirty talk about what we're into sexually. I think she might be a psycho or at least a nympho because she claims to have several leather toys. I'm pretty sure she's got a gag-ball, whip, dildos, and rope (not sure what else but I guess anything would only be mildly surprising).

Here's where the post title comes along. At the bar, it was really seeming like we were going to fuck. During the ride from the bar to the spot where we parked, I was putting feels on her. She started asking questions about my sexual history, namely, "When was the last time you had sex?" I answered truthfully, "in July, but I've been getting plenty of blow jobs since then". Now my frame up to this point was pretty good and I wasn't completely thrown off by this question, but when I asked her the same, she replied with, "last week, but I had gone for 4 months prior to that". Anyway, I think she caught wind of my lesser sexual experience and that's where the bang got put on hold (so yes, my frame still needs work). Like I said, we fooled around plenty, but I think if I replied with "I had sex yesterday, and the day before that, and two days before that" or "I've had sex with a new girl every 2 weeks for a year" or even just, "I have lots of sex", she would have been more likely to go all the way. So my inference here is, if you haven't had a lot of sex (lately or ever) and a girl asks you about your sex life, just lie. Does AskTRP feel the same way?

Further

She says she want's to fuck on Thursday- that's tomorrow- when no one will be home at her house! (and I want to believe it's true, based on the way she was chewing on my neck, her receptiveness to touching, and how much fun we were having etc...). I dropped her off at her house and we agreed to meet there at 7 on Thursday. I don't have her address. I told her to text me her address. I could absolutely find her house if I drove around her neighborhood (but that seems a lot like stalking to me and more important, I'm not gonna waste that kind of time if there isn't gonna be a meeting). I think the thing to do is, text her tomorrow around noon: "I'll be there at 7. What's your address?". And if she gets back to me and we fuck, then great! And if she doesn't and we don't, then whatever. Here's where I'm looking for advice- the wild next card- do you think I could play this out better by not texting her at all, till say Saturday? I'm not sure if she was just saying these things to grab my attention so she can get that sweet validation and then leave me biting the dust, or if she's gonna be a stand up slut about this and actually come through for our meeting (I should probably just assume interest). Am I making too much of the possibilities here? I guess my first strategy (she either takes it or leaves it) says yes, I am making too much. But again, I have a nagging feeling that there could be upper level game here, where I am the one leaving HER hanging.

(as I read back that last half of my last paragraph, it's pretty clear to me that I should just text her tomorrow, but I'm leaving the whole thing intact because it's how I was able to express my thoughts and I still wanna bounce them off you guys)

Let me know what you think. Questions, comments, shred me apart, tell me how great I am. it's all welcome!