Freaking out (pregnancy scare)

prodigyx · 2015-04-29T19:24:57+00:00

Chill out man. She's not pregnant. If she actually stopped taking birth control, it is going to fuck with her hormones and her period will be unpredictable. Plus there are the negative pregnancy tests, which are a pretty good indicator that she is not pregnant. On top of that, the fact that she doesn't want you to go to the doctor with her pretty much means that she knows she isn't pregnant (she isn't actually going to go) and she is just messing with you for any number of reasons.

fnordsnord · 2015-04-29T19:38:06+00:00

I've been there. I suspect almost ALL of us have been where you are.

So - deep breath. First: it's a LOT harder to knock up a girl than they tell you in health class. Yes - it's possible for ONE bang, your very first one, to knock her up. But it's not likely.

Second - two negative pregnancy tests. Those things are pretty good. You are probably fine.

Third - if she is pregnant, it's going to suck. And then after that, it's going to be okay. Life will go on. It may change. It may not. But it will go on and you're going to be okay.

cmiovino · 2015-04-29T19:19:31+00:00

Bro, I've been there. Had unprotected sex with an LTR, even 3 years in, but we were on rocky terms then. I was actually a virgin, beta boy then. Kind of the spur of the moment thing. It was a very quick, in and "wait, shit, what am I doing?!" moment.

For a month afterwards I was feeling the same way you are now. Couldn't focus. Just sat there thinking "Did I just fuck up bad?". I ended up telling a co-worker I'm really good friends with - we're friends outside of work too, so he was closest available broski to let that out to at the time. He assured me of the low percentage, etc and I felt better. I haven't heard from her in 4 months now, so I'm thinking all is well.

Just wanted to reach out and say I've been there. Serious questions: Were you using a condom, and did you ejaculate?

Obi_Wan_can_blow_me · 2015-04-29T19:50:00+00:00

if im reading your post correctly it sounds like she was taking the pill than stopped...

well, my girlfriend had to stop taking her pill for a month due to insurance changes, anyway she didn't get her period the whole month. once she got back on the pill she got her period around the normal time for her the following month.

those pills drastically mess with their hormones and menstruation processes, and it in not uncommon for their cycle to be screwy once they stop taking the pill. so there is really no need to worry until you see a positive pregnancy test. also wrap it up.

TDCRedPill · 2015-04-29T21:59:19+00:00

She's not pregnant. She's worried about being pregnant and using you to take the anxiety so she feels better. Don't take the anxiety. Realize the cold truth that she's not pregnant and you know pregnancy and lack of birth control are on her mind. That's it. Be stoic and certain that she's not pregnant, and she'll be relieved as well.

anothercarguy · 2015-04-30T03:15:37+00:00

So my over controlling cunt of a future ex wife (countdown to legally divorced is on!) constantly checks what her level of control is over me and how much she can emotionally manipulate me. Ie taking the dogs from me. Fucking bitch! That is what this looks like to me. It is a test, ignore it.

Title	Freaking out (pregnancy scare)
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Date	April 29, 2015 6:40 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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