Getting hit on by other males

abdada · 2016-03-10T21:26:38+00:00

It's normal.

Just make sure you're not gay, some gay dudes have crazy strong gaydar.

Sir_Distic · 2016-03-11T00:33:38+00:00

Take it as a compliment. Thank them but explain you're not into guys. Gay guys often hang with hot women so you could make friends with them.

Just be polite.

FrameWalker · 2016-03-10T21:49:51+00:00

It's not such a bad thing. I can think of at least 2 times when prospectives turned into plates after gay guys hit on me.

I had cold approached a pair of girls sitting at the bar while rolling solo. Already pretty tipsy when I got there, wearing a bro-tank and chatting everyone up. Went in indirect got them chatting, and pushed my knee into one of the girls legs at 15 min mark. "What are you doing?" "Seducing you slowly, anyway [change topic". Kept convo light and warm, we all decided to hop to another bar.

When we got there I went to teh bathroom and on the way there and on the way back just kept chatting with everyone. Ended up chatting with some gay dudes. When I got back to my seat the dudes followed me and one started flirting very aggressively. I just kept accepting the compliments and encouraging him. The girl I was going for started stroking me leg - some of that sweet inner thigh action. Didn't close that same night, but it was pretty smooth sailing at the next meetup.

Preselection/jealousy. It'll work boys. Even if they have no idea you're not bi.

edwardhwhite · 2016-03-10T22:30:39+00:00

just say you're straight.

the only problem is the closet cases, in my neighborhood, the Hispanic guys mainly. One would not leave me alone. I was a bit confused until I said I had to go talk to my friends and he said "are you leaving already?" Jesus. That's the shit dudes say to chicks. They won't come out and ask for what they want so you can say you're straight.

A lot more attention from anything that moves these days. Lift!

Albacorewing · 2016-03-10T21:30:48+00:00

Just let him know that you are not considering a same sex relationship, and keep his friendship.

If you live in a big city, there is certainly a population of gay guys suitable for him. They may be hidden from view. He needs to change his search patterns to find them.

RickJamesBeyach · 2016-03-10T23:06:10+00:00

"WTF dawg, I don't roll that way."

oldredder · 2016-03-11T06:41:38+00:00

there's nothing metrosexual about TRP.

You're clearly not doing it right.

MeatCurtainRod · 2016-03-10T23:24:48+00:00

It does in fact depend on how you present yourself. There is no question. 'Metrosexual culture' is just an excuse for ignoring masculine standards, and it just needs to stop. You can use more cute hairstyles if you have more masculine facial features. You can use fitted tight clothing if you have a manly body shape. You just have to figure out what works for you and to avoid what doesn't. If you want to be more like a man, avoid the following:

skinny jeans
hipster clothing
apple devices
one direction hairstyles
being all happy-go-lucky, smiling like a giddy girl
being overly chatty
being best buddies with women
NOT bantering with men
posturing like women

There are plenty of things you can do to seem more masculine. It is a lost skill nowadays. Just pick a role model and figure out how to be like him. Now, I'm not saying getting gay complements isn't a good thing, but when you get more flirts from guys over girls, doesn't that logically mean you are portraying playing for the wrong team?

Title	Getting hit on by other males
Author	dumstick
Upvotes	0
Comments	27
Date	March 10, 2016 9:14 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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