Getting nudes?

Future_Fisherman · 2021-03-09T17:44:01+00:00

i would advise against requesting nudes but if you must it would really only work on girls that are already invested in you. if you have one of those girls you can ask them to send you pictures of what they are wearing--preferably right before they come see you. once they are comfortable doing that they may send you nudes on their own accord.

in general though asking for nudes demonstrates neediness which is unattractive. most of the nudes sent are initiated by the girl herself and only to high value men. a girl sending nudes is in investment with the goal to direct a man's attention to her instead of other girls so ultimately it's about being a high value man with non-commitment and options aka abundance.

HarryDeBruyne · 2021-03-10T00:18:36+00:00

Nudes are usually sent for one of three reasons:

To convince someone to come over.
To tease / play prior to sex.
To satiate the desire for sex when you can't have it. (ex. You're both at work, you're on a business trip, if you're having an affair etc.)

The first two lead to sex, the last one is a substitute for sex.

In my experience it's usually the BPD chicks / attention whores / tinder sluts who'll send nudes without any coaxing. I'd (probably) never LTR a chick who sent nudes early on in without being asked. Red flag.

However, even with high quality women or women with a high Anti-slut defence, if a girl thinks you're her sexual best and is in your frame, she'll do practically anything for you. If she's shy / nervous / has ASD / smart enough to realize sending nudes in 2021 is a bad idea - all you need to do is plant the seed that her photographing herself with her phone is something you enjoy and let the hamster brain do the rest.

"What are you wearing right now?" is usually all it takes to get her started and bypass her ASD. It can be made as innocuous or arousing as you want it to be.

Let's say you send her this during the day and early in the conditioning process. Chances are she'll send you a harmless selfie or a mirror shot wherever she is. This gets her comfortable with the idea of using her phone to please you. Make sure you reward her. I'll send a gif like this one if I'm being playful or : "Fuckkk." or "Mmmm." if I like what I saw. This ties the compliment to sex and keeps a healthy tension in the conversation. That's usually all you have to say in order for her to send more. If you want more, just say: "More." This won't necessarily be nudes, but it conditions the response you want.

Don't beg. Don't be needy. Ask once. If she's into you, she'll do it. If she's at the edge of her comfort zone she'll let you know and will probably be playful about it and you can coax her a bit. "I won't tell." etc. However, if at any point in this process she shuts you down hard, chances are she doesn't find you attractive enough.

Another great way is texting her out of the blue something like: "Thinking about fucking you. What are you wearing?" This will spike her arousal and she won't have an outlet so oftentimes she'll send you something naughty. One of my plates was on a date at some high end resto and she made an excuse to go to the bathroom and sent me a full frontal. Hypergamy in action. Reward and escalate using the same method as above. Dick pic is a great reward here if you're comfortable with it. Don't put your face in it. Only send it if you're happy with the fact other people might see it. With one of my old plates I'd just send the Eggplant emoji. If you aren't comfortable, just let her do the sending.

Once you've introduced this to her as a way of her pleasing you and she's into you, she'll surprise you without being asked.

Edit: Another go-to that's always worked is if she's getting ready for a date with you or if you're both going out on the town but to different places you can text any of the following : "What are you wearing tonight?" , "Show me your outfit." , and reward/escalate with: "Daddy approves.", "Can't wait to take that off of you." , "Now without the dress." , "Bra?" "Heels?" or one of the reward/escalation phrases above. This reinforces your frame, plants a seed for later sex, associates you with arousal etc.

If you'll notice the theme with all of these texts is less is more. If you have frame you just need to say exactly what you want, nothing more, nothing less.

Also goes without saying that 99.99999% of the work happens before you even meet her by working on yourself. If she isn't sexually aroused by you none of the above is going to happen.

lIIllll · 2021-03-09T17:30:09+00:00

Send me your moms number and I’ll show you.

But in all seriousness there’s plenty of boobs online, use those. If you ask for nudes you come off creepy and cockblock yourself 95% of the time. Try talking to people in person and escalate that way.

throwitdownman · 2021-03-09T17:51:19+00:00

I’m probably in the minority of AskTRP who actually have received nudes. Seems like most on here are either allergic to the internet, or too old to have thumbs nimble enough to text.

I get nudes mostly from strangers I meet online through apps. Asking friends is awkward due to social pressures of them being labeled a slut. I rarely get them from people I meet in person (ex: in a bar), as I’m focused on escalating to sex.

The trick is... just ask for it. Women are horny just like men. Don’t be a geek about it, just ask for it. Whenever I get matched with a girl far away (esp last year since girls used Tinder passport) and found out she was hours/ a plane ride away, I’d just chat her up and ask for nudes. Worked surprisingly well.

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SeasonedRP · 2021-03-09T19:23:45+00:00

Don't ask for them. Some girls, if they are attracted to you and want to lure you in, will send them.

Subutai_Baghatur · 2021-03-09T19:35:36+00:00

I know I’ve got bigger problems to focus on than how to get nudes, but knowing more never hurt.

In this case, it will. Focus on seeing women naked in person rather than giving them the free validation of you directly or indirectly asking for a nude.

Title	Getting nudes?
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Date	March 9, 2021 5:14 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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