Getting rejected after sex

fnordsnord · 2016-11-11T19:12:51+00:00

Not enough information.

But the best guess is "buyer's remorse." By any standing, this was indiscriminate (slutty) behavior on her part. No woman, no matter how "sex positive" she thinks she is, wants to think of herself as a slut.

In the cold light of day, she realized what she'd done, decided, "this isn't who I am," and cut you out.

Alternate explanation: You were a revenge fuck, and she made up with the boyfriend she was pissed at last night and doesn't need you around rocking the boat.

I had this happen once. I was dating a girl who had "permission" to see other guys from her primary, who was trapped on a military academy campus 6 days a week. In the heat of the moment, we banged. And that was "too far." We were find when I dropped her off, but she cut me off without another word the next time I saw her. I wasn't attached, but being just dropped like that did set me back a bit.

lLoveLamp · 2016-11-11T19:57:38+00:00

With everything that happened so fast, don't be surprised it ended the same way.

ChrisBenRoy · 2016-11-11T21:41:49+00:00

All I did was be alpha in the 15 minutes.

Oh Christ...

MR_HIROSHI · 2016-11-12T03:29:41+00:00

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anonlymouse · 2016-11-11T19:39:42+00:00

Your sex wasn't good.

Tiway22 · 2016-11-11T22:04:55+00:00

Maybe she had been fucked and chucked by other guys and wanted to do it to someone to feel in control or feel powerful.

sesasees · 2016-11-11T23:35:05+00:00

Could be anything. Something like this happened to me a while ago and it turned out she had a boyfriend.

If you're at an American university, document everything bro. You need to protect yourself in case this is a case of buyers remorse that turns into a Title IX charge

___Jamie___ · 2016-11-11T22:48:53+00:00

Send her a romatic 2 page essay. Maybe include a poem in there. Then fuck her again and say NOW WE'RE DONE.

MattyAnon · 2016-11-11T21:10:46+00:00

But what happened here? Why so quickly?

Who the fuck knows. Women are dumb like this.

If you're happy with this outcome (yay, sex, no commitment!) then fine. If you're not, consider not having sex until the 2nd date, I hear first date sex can put women off a FWB deal.

Find more girls.

zboo1h · 2016-11-11T23:01:30+00:00

Like everyone said, too many variables. It can drive you crazy if you let it.

Had it happen to me. HB8 suddenly responds to a msg on Tinder, comes over that night and we eventually fuck. She was a shitty lay, complained about having her hair pulled and basically tried to act superior, so I kept pushing her head down into the pillows to shut her up.

I tried to plate her but she never texted back. It messed with my head for a week wondering about what her story was, exactly.

Just drop it and move on. Now.

neopet · 2016-11-11T23:56:48+00:00

Happens all the time. Don't sweat it bud it's got nothing to do with you, I mean how could it? You had 15 mins of interaction, she had her mind made up before you even came along.

fcb98292 · 2016-11-12T02:17:46+00:00

One night stand. Old as the hills.

Geleemann · 2016-11-12T03:56:59+00:00

Who the fuck knows?

Could be because the wind brushed her tits the wrong way, could be because she's bipolar.

Who knows. Stop thinking about it

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Title	Getting rejected after sex
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Date	November 11, 2016 6:43 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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