So it's been 3 weeks since my breakup and I'm finding I don't have motivation to be the best version of myself. I was running after my breakup, planned on going to Jiu Jitsu, joining a gym and lifting, going monk mode. Now 3 weeks in I'm rarely running, haven't done any of those things and find myself on a Friday night cleaning my apartment.... I'm having the typical post breakup emotions, going no contact, but I am not pulling myself together enough to better me! Wtf am I doing and why!!! I'm very frustrated with myself.

I have stopped watching porn, smoking weed and rarely jerk off, but I feel pathetic.

How do you guys get your shit together?? I'm being a pussy and I'm starting to hate myself for it!