GF browsing craigslist personals

bsutansalt · 2015-12-01T22:42:33+00:00

Hard downgrade to plate and do not emotionally invest in her again. Keep her for sex until something better comes along and either maintain her as a plate, or DTB. Your choice.

crixusin · 2015-12-01T21:29:38+00:00

Ghost. Never speak to her again.

If you think she was doing it just for "fun," you're deluding yourself. If she was just doing it for fun, is that the kind of girl you want to be with anyway? (the answer is no).

MAX_Fury · 2015-12-01T22:27:37+00:00

you are delusional, someone has to say it, from the looks of it, it seems you got oneitis aswell for this chick. you just don't want to break up with her to have to restart the whole process of going out there.

Here's the thing bro, your body is telling you something is wrong, LISTEN to it bc let's face it, there is something wrong. Why is she looking, it certainly has her curiosity and her attention. You know what you have to do, next and forget. Stop trying to tell yourself that everything is fine when it isn't.

By all means, don't approach her bc you'll be considered insecure, keep it cool at all times, just disappear from her life and go fuck other girls, plenty of them out there for you. Good luck bro

blacwidonsfw · 2015-12-02T03:51:34+00:00

Weird, this is a tough one. You could try to see if she will acknowledge it without actually bringing it up. "Hey I need a new couch, do you know how to make a post on Craigslist?" Then when you start doing it just be like what's this? And click on the casual section. Is she is like oh yeah that section is funny I look at that someone's, then you are good. If she plays dumb then I'd be worried.

I mean I look at r/relationships sometimes for shots and giggles but I would never associate with that shit if you know what I mean. I think it's totally possible she just went on there for drama and read the stories. I think the easiest way if possible is to check her emails to see if she has acted on anything. But yes I think it's possible she looked for fun and nothing else. It doesn't make sense a hot young girl would go on cl when they can get dick in 20 seconds from tinder or the guy walking down the street. Just my 2 cents.

Blerks · 2015-12-02T00:04:58+00:00

If you're interested in maintaining the relationship with her, treat this as a wakeup call that you're getting complacent and need to try harder. You need to keep improving yourself so she wouldn't even dream of straying. Get in better shape or something, and get her eyes back on you.

I think you should absolutely NOT tell her about spying on her phone. Good way to kil the relationship. You should be the one to deal with this.

bigdickedtyrone · 2015-12-01T23:58:58+00:00

I don't think you should suddenly downgrade her to plate or next her because of this. Why? Because you yourself will later regret thinking, "Was I too extreme?", "She was only looking at a website," etc. Your conscience will be at unease because you acted with extremity.

You should wait until you have more evidence. You open policy should help you get some more info into her true behavior.

THEN, you can be at ease and dump her ass with no regrets.

InformalCriticism · 2015-12-01T22:55:13+00:00

You have to ask yourself how much you're willing to accept, and whether you can do better than this girl. Are you attracting shitty girls? Ask yourself some questions about all of your relationships and focus on you. I know you're asking about her, but 9/10 times you can fix her behavior by fixing yourself.

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fphtrp · 2015-12-01T22:26:47+00:00

If you enjoy your time with her and want it to continue, it will be a good chance for you to show her and yourself your ability to maintain frame. When you confront her about it, there will be accusations, shit tests and possibly comfort tests afterwards depending on your relationship.

It is important to be able to distinguish between the 3. If you want more advice tell me the path you want to follow and I'll give you some of my experiences with this kind of ordeal.

babydocnorman · 2015-12-01T22:39:53+00:00

But man this is pretty close to crossing a line here.

Gee, you think? /s

I wouldn't call her out on it until you have more evidence that she's planning to cheat or doing it already. She'll deny it and will be more careful about covering her tracks.

Watch her like a hawk and start lining up your own plan B, C, etc.

Shit, have some fun with it and catfish her. Place a fake ad in CL and see if you get a response, lol.

moresmarterthanyou · 2015-12-02T03:21:08+00:00

da fuq man. bounce fool

rez1440 · 2015-12-02T03:06:23+00:00

If she's that sexy, what's she doing on Craigslist? Picking up someone from there is like one-step away from fucking a random homeless person in an alley.

I'd ask her just to make sure she didn't pick up any STDs.

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Date	December 1, 2015 9:25 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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