gf has daddy and abandonment issues

VasiliyZaitzev · 2020-03-09T14:42:23+00:00

Girls with daddy issues tend to be wildcats in the sack, so enjoy that while it lasts.

Also, introduce light bondage into the bedroom. Your goal here is to make her as compliant as possible. She didn’t have a father to teach her to accept male leadership, so you’re going to have to do it. The good news is that you can break her in exactly the way you want her.

DullIntroduction · 2020-03-09T10:10:03+00:00

Since she's a plate, and you haven't made the mistake of getting exclusive that easily (right?), it shouldn't be an issue to maintain the course.

Edit : I misread, she isn't a plate anymore. Advice still stands.

halleluiaiaia9292 · 2020-03-09T10:49:40+00:00

Take it as a serious red flag. They might not have appeared yet as its the honeymoon phase still and she might be love bombing you. But be prepared for them to come later on

hmsthinkingmeat · 2020-03-09T12:31:25+00:00

Eject, eject, eject.

Abandonment issues = personality issues (like borderline PD craziness, threatening to commit suicide, cutting, etc).

Daddy issues = personality issues.

It will eventually make your life a misery.

maubreetius · 2020-03-09T11:55:38+00:00

This can work against or with you. If she has abandoment issues its easier to maintain frame. Like if you dont do or let me do A, then its best to just end things. It will be more effective, but she also will react more heavelly then other girls. The greatest issue I had with a girl that had abandoment issues is how longer in the relationship, the more time she want to be spending with you. She will fight with you about this issue. So mainting frame will be harder and a lot of fights will come. Anyway ofcource my own experience is different than yours will be. But just keep an eye out of manipulating behavior that she want to spend more time with you in cost of spending time with your friends/ career goals. And hold boundaries really tight.

DerekMorganBAU · 2020-03-09T21:40:48+00:00

That daddy issue pussy hit different. My bottom bitch has daddy issues and that shit A1.

Could come with some baggage but I don't give a fuck about shit like that unless it's pure bullshit.

I always tell bitches that I won't pay for what the last man did. As long as they keep shit like that under wraps then it's all good.

H2orocks3000 · 2020-03-10T04:22:59+00:00

I think a lot of it depends on if she is willing to do her own self work, EQ to mindfulness and integrating her own narrative.

Title	gf has daddy and abandonment issues
Author	advisemeandhelpme
Upvotes	1
Comments	7
Date	March 9, 2020 9:15 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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