GF has depression.

NazoXIII · 2017-12-12T22:15:24+00:00

By walking right the fuck away.

Look, I get it, you "care" for this girl. But what she's going through isn't your cross to bear. Sure, you can stick around, but know it may never get better. It's alot better for your sanity to find a more well adjusted woman (or several).

I've been there. Girl was my unicorn, but she was a fucking downer, and you know what, the more and more I got roped into her frame, I started adopting the same traits, anxiety, stress, the whole 9, it was almost like we were together to commiserate!

The moment I cut her off it was like a literal weight was lifted off my shoulders.

FuckboyAWALT · 2017-12-12T22:18:50+00:00

GF has depression

Stopped reading, RUN.

ChadThundersmash · 2017-12-13T18:45:08+00:00

do not soft next... do not hard next... ==> Ghost the fuck out of there and run for your wallet - you have stuck your dick in crazy - do you best to wash it off as fast as you can...

There is NO SCENARIO in which this works well for you - none. No Unicorns, no exceptions, no shit

I'm sorry for you dude - I get that you care about her but that ship is sinking and you Don't have to go Down with it. U are Not Captian SaveAHoe. Read the sidebar - get an abundance mentality 3.5 Billion girls on the planet, statisticaly 3.5 million of them are NOT crazy :) Go find one...

WoundedGiant · 2017-12-12T23:22:41+00:00

I know what you mean by being chicken about breaking up. I’m in the same situation and haven’t broken up. I checked the clinical criteria for borderline personality disorder, and my gf has all nine, and I’m still with her. Well I only checked after I made her pregnant, which raises the stakes. Check the DSM for criteria for BPD. Maybe yours has the same. If so, think hard about what you want and don’t want.

Title	GF has depression.
Author	IMGRINDIN_IPROMISE
Upvotes	3
Comments	6
Date	December 12, 2017 10:00 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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