Today, I woke up to my gf of 2 years sending me a text like this:

"Parents aren't home until 7." "But I've got some business at x place"

I say: "Well, today is my mom's birthday. I'll see if I can come though."

She replies: "Hehe don't leave your mom :))"

I reply: "I'll come over at 4.30 pm if I can."

She replies: "We'll see."

Now, normally when this happens, her parents aren't home between 4-7. But then from the way she told it I thought maybe it was not the case today and asked whether they are gone now are will go away at 4.

She replied saying they aren't home now. I then say then I'll be coming at 3 or something. She then replied saying "Don't come I need to go to x place".

At this point, I was thinking that she had some shit to do and won't be available at 3. She gave different answers when I said 3 and 4.30, it looks like 3 doesn't suit her so let's stick with 4.30.

I say "Don't go then." then there is no exchange.

I then thought I could arrive at 5 like I do normally and that way I can give her the time she needs to sort her stuff.

I then leave my house and take the train. When I am near the x train station I text her to meet me there so we can go back to her place together. She responds: "Noooo I'm with friend a and friend b. I can't today."

I get very angry at the moment and just text her: "I'm going to your place, be there at 5"

When I get there, she's not there so I call her and she's still at x. She says she didn't invite me over. I say "yeah ok then don't come back. There's no need." She starts texting me to stay there and don't go anywhere and she'll be there soon. I say I can't wait for long, leave them now. It's 5 pm when this shit happened. I wait for about 30 minutes thinking she got to a taxi and is coming there. Turns out she didn't and she was still with her friends. I say I am leaving and this shit is disrespectful. She keeps saying she'll come soon. At about 6, she says she's very close and tells me not to leave. By this time I am at the bus stop waiting for a bus. She texts me saying there is lots of traffic and she's in a taxi coming soon. At 6.30 pm her battery dies. But she's still not here. I take the bus and leave.

At 7pm she texts me that her battery died (its legit I called her during that time) and she just got home. She tells me why I came over and that she didn't invite me. I hang up on her. Then we text back and forth, I tell her I am very dissappointed in her actions and that she didn't even say sorry. She says she's right and I should be sorry for coming over without being asked. She says "Saying parents aren't home is not asking you over.". I finally tell her that I want her to apologize for today's events otherwise I can't see a future with such disrespectful behaviour. She hesitates after this but doesn't apologize.

After about half an hour we talk on the phone, I explain her that I am dissappointed and that she flaked on me and lied to me after I got to her place and kept me waiting. After some talk she apologizes for keeping me wait there. I still insist for a full apology.

Then I get home finally, we talk once more, I tell her I explained her things she already knows enough and I told her the only solution for this situation is that she acknowledged she was in the wrong. She refuses to say she is in the wrong.

Finally I text her that even though I love her I won't be able to withstand disrespectful shit like this and only her can make it cool again. I tell her this unnecessary bullshit bothers me and that I want to leave it behind.

After minutes, she sends I love you texts, saying all these are very unnecessary.

I reply with @ing at my previous text about even though I love her, I can't continue with some shit like this and only her can solve it. She sees it but no response after that.

Now, what should I do here? Should I push for an apology even more? In my other texts and phone calls I insisted that it was important for me. Probably the next interaction will happen tomorrow. What should I do?

Her actions really annoyed me today, my first language is not English, I may have made some mistakes when trying to explain all the events but it really bothered me.

Note: I am not seeing a future with her anymore, she may only be good for a plate or a fwb idk. I also have another plate at the moment. But the girl in the story is like my first everything and it has been 2 years so of course I have feelings for her.