What's up askTRP. Give you a quick rundown of the situation. I was messing around on Fade -a social networking site where you post pictures with captions- when out of nowhere a hottie messages me.
Now, I think I have a fairly high SMV -I'm educated, dress well, a Marine, and a decent looking guy- but I'd be fooling myself if I didn't say she was out of my league. I roll with it though, act kinda-sorta non-interested, ask why she messaged me.
I was bored and thought that you were pretty attractive :D
Haha well I'd have to agree!
I'm cringing just reading that but it worked on her. I establish from the get-go that I'm in this for sex/a relationship and get her phone number and start texting her. Little goes on for the rest of the night, we do basic flirting, she finds my instagram and likes every photo, we snap back and forth... No nudes or anything yet and we haven't established a time to meet up, but otherwise I'd say it was a pretty successful, by the book intro phase.
My question is... How to proceed from here? She actually lives kinda far away, goes to a different school (already asking me to transfer...lol) but we've established that we want to see each other. Would you advise to get together sooner, rather than later? And where are we for the future? A two hour drive for a hook up is definitely not ideal for either of us.
While I talked good game in text I am a recovering blue-pill and I'm worried that she will see through that when we meet face to face. I've snooped through her instagram and I see no evidence of guys, though there's a metric shit ton of guys who like her pictures and such. I guess I'm just looking for basic advice on how to maintain confidence when you meet in person, specifically when you're hitting way above your average?
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