First off all imma say I'm not sad or anything, I wasn't invested at all. This is just to reflect.

I will probably regret this as the best answer will be "Stop thinking about it. Next" but I'm not quite the RP wizard yet.

So what happened was I met this girl at a Halloween party at my place, she went to the same uni (only saw here there a couple of times). At first she seemed head over heels for me, she tried holding my hand quite early on and I told her to wait etc.

Around a month in, she came over and went a bit nuts saying her doctor thinks she can't get pregnant. I said I was sorry for her and then asked further questions (as you do... re contraception) and she flipped. This didn't make me happy and so the next day I texted her to say I hope we're on the same wavelength and I'm not looking for anything serious. She gave me some token resistance and such for the next 2 weeks but then broke and started seeing me again.

We had sex more than anything else, and I wasn't ever going to break frame for her. Recently we had great sex (she said and did things) and everything seemed to go better, except she became really shit at replying to texts, to the point where I called her out on it and became a bit less available. Still, whenever she has seen me she has been all over me, very intimate and sexual - major IOIs constantly - I thought we would be doing this for a while longer. She messaged me on Facebook to tell me I'm great and she had a great time but she feels like it's 'not going anywhere' and so we should stop seeing eachother. I haven't responded - am I right to hard next her now?

My theory is either she got frustrated at my lack of comfort/commitment OR she met chad.