Got into a LTR with a slut...

btrpb · 2019-01-20T13:25:40+00:00

Dude. You are 18. You are doing ok. She ain't gonna last forever, regardless. Bone her for a bit. Keep lifting: you can see you've made progress, so build upon it. Try not to get too emotionally attached.

mrmaldoror · 2019-01-20T13:17:37+00:00

Lol at all the thoughts running through your head, made me nostalgic for puberty.

Too much to unravel here, read the sidebar etc

My advice to you, is stay in your own head, stay out of her world. Fuck her for experience, talk about shit you like, don't even reply to things you don't like to hear. It will most likely end bad, but all relationships do and you go through a lot when you are young.

Though don't fuck her if she too crazy, move on if that is the case.

Mangasbzo7 · 2019-01-20T17:16:43+00:00

Whatever man, just cum on her face like every guy she been with before you.

Just stay alpha and rail her like a bullet train. If she fucks off one day, so fucking what. She's a slut, so nothing of value was lost.

modimian · 2019-01-20T13:18:15+00:00

She sees you as alpha to tell you that and you are whinny beta . Women don’t tell betas their kinky stuff . Stop being butthurt and accept that women like sex just like men do . Also “ you’re lucky to have me” is an insecure attempt from her part to raise her value in your eyes . Women don’t fuck low smv guys .

masterpiece00 · 2019-01-20T13:49:22+00:00

which she’s had 2-3

Lol.

friendandadvisor · 2019-01-20T14:32:29+00:00

I don’t want to stop dating her bc than I’m the asshole who dated her for a week just to fuck her, and her dads a cop.

She's used to getting pumped and dumped-if you dump her now, she'll respect you more. And, her dad is used to her getting pumped and dumped. He won't blame you, he know that she's a whore. AAMOF, if you bail NOW, he'll never think of you again.

I know I’m not gonna marry this girl, but am I slut shaming this girl when AWALT?

You need the shit slapped out of you. If you had any balls, I'd kick you in them, but, a slapping suits bitches, and that is what you are.

If you ask, politely, I, or somebody else here can explain.

Or is she really low value?

"The stories she has told me were gross, so, I know that there are worse stories that she's never going to tell me." She sounds extremely high value to me.

BluePillEltonJohn · 2019-01-20T13:53:58+00:00

“Last night I asked her why she worked out at the gym so much, and she said so she can stop dating me” hahahaha im sorry to tell u, but she is pimping u and she knows she has u on her fingers

VisiblePlan · 2019-01-20T15:49:51+00:00

She's trying to pimp you. Don't let her.

She knows your the pimp in this relationship, so she's trying to get an edge, saying stuff like 'youre lucky to have me.' Just remember, you are the prize, not some 2 dollar high school hoe.

huggyblossom · 2019-01-20T16:37:14+00:00

Where is the age requirement to even post here - I don’t want to stop dating her bc than I’m the asshole who dated her for a week just to fuck her ...

WHAT LTR YOU HAVE IN 1 WEEK?!!! You're fucking 18 and you got her for sex - you are not even old enough to use any plate, SMV and etc. shit, since you make a fool out of yourself by using only terms about the first girl that got in bed with you.

If you want terms - you have still no idea how to use your dick properly and started blue pilling yourself beyond ridiculous without even a reason.

Fuck her brains out, do not pay much attention to her craves as long as she fucks you good and responds to your lead - you will need any of the thinking long term if any of the shit you dream off starts to be real, because you overthink simple shit!!!

Kpwn88 · 2019-01-20T18:15:31+00:00

Got into a LTR...

...I'm 18 in high school

Grow up, faggot.

anusbleach11111 · 2019-01-20T17:42:35+00:00

am I slut shaming

Lol

SirKolbath · 2019-01-20T13:17:51+00:00

For the record I’m 18 in high school

You didn’t have to say. We can tell.

You should be focused on grades, lifting, and finding your mission. Girls are a distraction and a waste of time at that age.

Fdx1000 · 2019-01-20T17:36:59+00:00

Her Ex-Boyfriends had higher SMVs than me, which she’s had 2-3 of iirc, all ripped, tan, fast cars. I’ve been lifting for about a year and gained 15 pounds, but I’m still pretty pale and skinny.

Your time will come, just do your thing, keep investing in your own value (working out, school, social ladder). Dont overdo the gym at 18. Your bones and joints are not entirely ready for serious workout.

She has made jabs that I’m lucky to have her, and that I’m “kinda” cute

What you are. You are lucky that you had your first girl to fuck, and non less than a HB7. And she can feel this. When you jump boat your second GF wont feel that way, bc you wont have that "I am lucky that i finally got pussy to fuck" aura. You will have that "I had HB7s before you and I dumped her, bc she was not good enough for me. So girl keep your act together" aura which she will respect if you do it right.

Last night I asked her why she worked out at the gym so much, and she said so she can stop dating me. Although she was joking, I feel like there’s some truth in that statement.

That was one "shit test" of hers. Such words are totally not acceptable by my standards so I would have responded accordingly. When you put down your insecure boy aura,which will be put down when you are no insecure boy anymore (and you are on the right path for that) then woman will sense that they can not pull of and get away with such words.

She’s also let me fuck her in public, and has admitted to having a slutty past.

Fucking a girl in public is a no small feat. She will allow that only who is seen by her as her superior. She probably has not decided entirely which category of males you are in. She is perhaps also much less experienced than you think and "showing off with a slutty past" that she does not YET really have.

Bottom lines:

-Fuck her but dont marry her. Extract the experience you can from that relationship. We men are forged not born. You need experience

-Your relationship is beyond redeemable. You (bc your lack of experience and frame) dont have the aura of clear superiority in this relationship. Since she is more experienced than you, you will not be able to take solid control in these cirumstances. Which is btw much harder than be the alpha from right the start.

-Prepare for your next relationship, where you will have much better cards bc the experience you gained.

-When you see a girl who you like and is less experienced than you, jump ship. That will be a much better start.

bottom bottom line:

Dont take shit tests seriously. If you feel insulted respond with authority so that she knows that she cant get away with insulting words

WoodWizzy87 · 2019-01-20T19:42:18+00:00

Secretly demote her to a plate if you want. Easier said than done since you’re young and still in those testosterone years and emotions

red_matrix · 2019-01-20T20:00:06+00:00

She’s not yours, it’s only your turn. Enjoy your time fucking, if the sex is good just enjoy it, it sounds like there’s no future. She will leave if you keep failing her shit tests.

XT3M3 · 2019-01-20T22:17:41+00:00

lmfao you really got trapped into this girl commitment ploy to smash?

and on top of that letting her disrespect you? you say those are jokes, but even jokes have some inside truth to them as you pointed out that you know

you are only questioning this cause you found out about her past. which is EXACTLY why we say vet these girls b4 you get commitment.

demote her to a plate since you are clearly in this for the sex. and fuck her and other girls. remember, women are the gatekeepers of sex , we control relationships. never give up your power card b4 she gives up hers

Bruchibre · 2019-01-21T03:33:57+00:00

You are not slut shaming, you're doing all right. When I was 18 I was also afraid that if I start meeting a girl I'd be stuck with her. I was stupid.

A slut is a slut, acknowledging it is not slut shaming. She seems quite low value, but she's hot, you are 18 in HS, you shouldn't care too much. Enjoy the ride. You don't need to break up tomorrow, but keep your distances. Stay like you are now. When you get bored/ she becomes bithchy, pull the plug.

Sex in public? what did she let you do? Slutty past, how many dudes has she banged at 18?

effyouasshole · 2019-01-20T16:18:27+00:00

and wouldn’t let me fuck her unless we dated, so I did.

Scarcity mentality.

She has made jabs that I’m lucky to have her [...] Last night I asked her why she worked out at the gym so much, and she said so she can stop dating me.

You're just the safe re-bound she's using to save her ego from bottoming out. Effectively, she's buying time to branch-swing.

I don’t want to stop dating her bc than I’m the asshole who dated her for a week just to fuck her, and her dads a cop.

Weak frame. Always do what you want.

but am I slut shaming this girl when AWALT?

Wat.

Or is she really low value?

Yes, and so are you. Keep lifting like your life depends on it (because it does). And eat more to gain mass.

Silently demote her to plate status, and game other women.

Learn and master the side-bar. You have a long road ahead of you.

Kommanderdude · 2019-01-20T23:28:41+00:00

Never ltr until you are over 30. You know what to do. Hard next.

aanarchist · 2019-01-20T16:48:45+00:00

She's very low value, and has what sounds to be a mental disorder. You already know your intentions coming in, getting experience then getting out. You can respond how you want to her but my preferred response is to turn it back on her actually you're the lucky one. She's clearly a branch swinger so why commit to that, she's not relationship material she was just in it for the sex anyway, there's no purpose in wanting something from someone that they cannot themselves offer.

NeuroMnemonic7 · 2019-01-20T18:11:32+00:00

I like dirty sex, the kinkier the better. Pass her this way, she needs someone that embraces that sluttyness.

Nergaal · 2019-01-20T19:04:55+00:00

It's called shittesting

biezpiens · 2019-01-21T12:54:23+00:00

*The stories she has told me we’re gross, so I know there are worse stories she’s never going to tell me.

Mind to share?

Gordon-G · 2019-01-21T23:21:22+00:00

Don’t trust...ever

BluBlac59 · 2019-01-23T05:20:34+00:00

Pay attention to what she's about what she's done with other guys. Consider it a lesson on what a woman will do when she's really attracted to a guy. So you can learn then apply some technique in the future. There are no LTR at 18. I think she sees you as entertainment until she finds a guy she will dump you for. Dump her first. There's a lot of women in your future.

izzyinjurious · 2019-01-24T14:44:48+00:00

You know how there's guys in marriages that lose their way then find red pill and get control the relationship after applying the red pill for a little while and the woman falls into her frame? Do that. Make that your goal. If you don't know wtf I'm talking about read older trp articles use the filter top all time etc. You'll find them there's a bunch or sometimes in the comments. Absorb this stuff apply it and use her for practice. Who cares if she fucks off you still have the rest of your life for other girls. This one is good practice.

Josh42A · 2019-01-20T19:54:03+00:00

Unless she hasn't showered since she's done those things with other people then that's gone and in the past every day people are new my wife had sex with people before me but the important thing is she chooses me and is with me now. I see to many men here hung up on petty things like this if personality is the most important in a relationship if you like hers that stick with her.

Title	Got into a LTR with a slut...
Author	JoJammaJack
Upvotes	24
Comments	53
Date	January 20, 2019 1:13 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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