Hello. So, here's the deal -
I want some Red Pill advice on Gym game. I moved from a smaller gym, to a much bigger and louder environment. I don't have a particularly deep, resonant voice. During peak hours, this gym gets so loud that it's hard to hear myself speak, akin to a big high school cafeteria. I have to half yell.
When I first moved to this gym, I approached a girl and said "it's cute how you hide your gut with that belt" but she couldn't understand me. I repeated myself again and she still didn't catch my words, to which I walked away due to dismay.
Today, there was another girl that I wanted to approach, but the anxiety from the first experience from having to repeat myself was so great, I straight up *depersonalized* and had to walk outside to organize my thoughts.
Is there anything I can do about this? I have no experience with the loud environments of night game, and I am at a loss. I hope you can provide me with some insight and perhaps some gym experiences of your own.
Thank you, and good tidings.
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