I've been getting much more attention from women ever since I started taking care of my health and socializing more. I'm still a virgin, but I'm almost certain I'll lose it by the end of the year. I actually have a high-interest prospect lined up right now.

But even if I had a 12-girl rotation, I still can't get past "what could have been." I would've slayed in university had I simply started exercising a few years sooner.

I feel like the washed-up 40 year old who played football in high school and would have made it in the NFL "if only XYZ didn't happen." How can I stop dwelling and move on?