How do I deal with nuclear shit tests?

zeny_two · 2014-09-11T03:24:59+00:00

If a man became irate over nothing, you'd laugh at him. Do the same with women

BitingInsects · 2014-09-11T02:57:50+00:00

Lack of context. I'll assume you're doing this without any initial attraction, and coming off as some random dude judging them. Forget negs and shit. The first time I heard about negs was in 2008, from a book written in 2005.

CryptoManbeard · 2014-09-11T11:48:45+00:00

So you're surrounding yourself with a woman who escalates to violence "or a scene"? Does her vagina turn condoms into gold?

If not, I'd hit the next button.

Agent1407 · 2014-09-11T04:35:38+00:00

You can't do negs all the time, and they must be subtle. Also, you need to mix it with some compliments and emotional gratification. The mix of good/bad emotions is addictive to women. You need to give her all kinds of emotions.

trpSenator · 2014-09-11T05:38:32+00:00

You aren't negging right, simple as that.

like another user said, there isn't enough context, but it seems like you're negging just to neg and it's douchey, poorly timed, and you aren't conveying enough status to pull it off.

I honestly just think it's you don't know how to properly neg and when you say "interesting dress" with a smirk, you come off in a way that people don't realize you're teasing and think you're attacking them with a smile.

mbillion · 2014-09-11T04:15:20+00:00

It sounds to me like you are overstepping with your slight neg's. It needs to be slight, if its to the point of downright offending the woman you are doing it wrong. Try toning down your rhetoric a little bit. The point is not to completely offend her, its to pick up and make light of a slight insecurity

RedPillington · 2014-09-11T04:46:32+00:00

you're asking how to deal with the smashing success of a neg. allow the satisfaction well up in your belly and radiate out throughout the rest of your being, and smile like a fat powerful king baby at a woman who will humiliate herself for you.

asd1100 · 2014-09-11T07:04:41+00:00

<most likely based on your example> you are not actually projecting confidence, you just say bold things that are read as creepy(dress choice is a bit much)
<second most likely, based on their response> you do not calibrate, in europe gameyer intros are rarely needed because women don't have bitch shields up
<aldough it should not be a issue if you have the first 2 under control> you look like a douchebag, a lot of machismo is culturally frowned upon and if you don't have a good game and let them define you, they will prepachage you into the douchebag stereotype.

bobbybluepill · 2014-09-11T02:44:51+00:00

Is this in general or with a girl you've been seeing awhile? If the latter, did you swallow TRP before or after you'd become involved with her?

real-boethius · 2014-09-11T15:20:34+00:00

5% of women are crazy / Borderline Personality Disorder, more of the women on the dating market.

Determine if she is one of these and arrange a fast exit.

GeminiVI · 2014-09-11T17:24:54+00:00

Next.

kingofpoplives · 2014-09-11T20:53:09+00:00

Im really stumped on this, what can I do?

This is a sign she is getting bored/annoyed with you. Familiarityy breeds contempt, as they say.

Make yourself scarce for while. Drastically reduce communication, interest in hanging out. Should do the trick.

frequentlywrong · 2014-09-11T04:11:37+00:00

There is way more to the story than you are telling. Is she someone you've just met or a LTR?

I presume she is a LTR. If she goes nuclear, you go nuclear. Tell her there are plenty of nice women in the world so you have zero reason to put up with a bitch. Tell her to chill out or gtfo.

When a woman understands you are willing to dump her ass if she does not behave. She will be on her best behavior. She will stay on her best behavior until she doubts you are willing to dump her. This is why marriage never improves a relationship. It destroys the mans trump card and puts the power in her hands.

Title	How do I deal with nuclear shit tests?
Author	Askingthepill
Upvotes	13
Comments	16
Date	September 11, 2014 1:41 AM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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