How do I stop being invisible?

Abnull · 2019-10-17T19:49:26+00:00

Being invisible is an attitude. Look at yourself, you actually don’t won’t to be seen, you only think you do.

HumbleTrees · 2019-10-17T20:11:28+00:00

After hitting 30 I feel the fucking same mate.

Domebeers · 2019-10-17T20:26:18+00:00

So I'm old (over 30) and single, and lots of friends are married. What did i do? In my city they have these co-ed sports leagues, so I joined a few teams. Most of the people on these teams are young. What happened? I made a lot of single friends who I can use as wings. (Generally use the girls I meet there as wings, the men nowadays don't really know how to act as a wingman).

So that may work for you.

shitpommesfrites · 2019-10-17T20:36:12+00:00

My guess is that your getting older. Clubbing and such are for early 20 somethings, when you get older you need to join a subculture with a different mindset than partying. Get involved in something; a biker-gang, a band, get into politics, anything.

It's not about getting just another hobby; its about being part of a community or a crowd and being respected in it. You need somewhere that you can go on a regular basis and cultivate relations.

Just lifting isn't enough if you don't have the social circles.

Me personally have done many things; I've played in a band and did the whole punk rock-scene. I had a side gig mixing cocktails at a bar(the restaurant/bar-business has an incredible amount of social benefits). Right now I'm doing some night classes at the nearby college, and at the same time I'm pretty involved in the local fight gym.

But the trick here is not just doing these things as an hobby, you need to do them with the goal of acquire social capital.

W_O_M_B_A_T · 2019-10-17T17:49:06+00:00

Get single friends.

Virgin_Elf_Master · 2019-10-17T19:56:18+00:00

Join a local fascist organization

Jesusfeminist · 2019-10-17T19:29:02+00:00

Wear cool clothes

FrozenTreeStump · 2019-10-17T19:49:32+00:00

Go out alone

zeekt12 · 2019-10-17T22:07:45+00:00

Ill probably get hated for this on trp, but dont fap and only cum if its inside a girl.

When i go 3+ days of retention i feel like my energy is more noticed, my “vibration” is stronger, and i overall have more charisma and energy, making me extremely visible to people.

BurnoTaurus · 2019-10-18T00:47:55+00:00

take the ring off

TRP_mask · 2019-10-17T23:36:05+00:00

Where do you go to clubs lol here every girl has beta orbiters and don't talk to anyone of any gender if you don't happen to have met her anywhere before.

Guess it's a student thing (technical studies so yeah) but damn I want clubs like that

Title	How do I stop being invisible?
Author	LaMacondoPloua
Upvotes	11
Comments	17
Date	October 17, 2019 5:35 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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