I gamed this girl, totally had her in my grasp, escalated quickly and easily. I had her in my bed, laying on my, playing with her hair and lips, but I fucked up and didn't pull the trigger. The next night we're all drinking and hanging out, some other guy comes in who smokes cigarrettes, (Which I don't, but she does) and she basically just moves on to him. I know AWALT and she instantly moved on because I wasn't direct enough, and I took too long to make a move. I know what I did wrong, and I will learn from this. But how do I stop caring about her. Any advice on what I can do to mentally reset and be back to my normal self, so I can game other women and think about something else? I think I have mild oneitis, and it's killing me.