Fellas, at what point do you covertly let her know she is a plate (you are not interested in being exclusive) . Quite of often I declare this covertly during the talking stage('getting to know each other') , (just before she's hooked) and I realize I lose the potential plate, I take it if she agrees, it will be overtly putting her as a hoe, which she doesn't want.

Now, the potential plate is obviously assessing seeing what benefit she can aquire, sure enough, soon as I let her know I am engineer, shes in.

Pulling them in, is no problem, but I realize quite often they need a confirmation of exclusiveness before they drop the panties. I am in no point of giving any hoe, those rights.

I kind of hit a brick wall, there, conversation dies down.