how do you escalate/show intent if you aren't supposed to give compliments?

Talinor09 · 2019-06-30T01:12:44+00:00

The reason TRP advocates not giving compliments off the bat as it signals that you are a beta, i.e telling a girl she is the most beautiful girl you’ve ever seen is a beta move because you are trying to exchange a compliment/validation for sex/action. This is transactional in nature and is also a rather hollow compliment as surely you’ve seen more beautiful girls, even if only on TV.

The caveat here is that once you actually know said girl and are escalating/plating then sure you can give her compliments. Just don’t expect anything in return. A compliment should be because (i) you know her and (ii) you mean it, i.e [x] you look really sexy today. You are telling her that because that’s what YOU genuinely think. Not because that’s what you think she wants to hear or because you think it’ll help build attraction (it wont).

If you’re newer to game/picking up girls then i’d avoid compliments off the bat. Use banter (negging/teasing), flirting or sexual innuendo to give sexual suggestions (e.g I want to bite your lip).

Once you’re more confident and actually don’t give a fuck then you can compliment women all you like. I’ve walked up to girls on the way out of bars and said I think you’re really hot, i’ve gotta go but you should put your number in my phone. Got the number and just walked off.

I said this because that’s what I genuinely felt at the time, didn’t have time to fuck around and just felt and wanted to be direct in my intentions around why I wanted their numbers (i.e I think you’re hot and want to fuck you). It worked, but if it hadn’t of then I doubt I would have cared as nothing ventured nothing gained.

PotatoWatt · 2019-06-30T00:14:21+00:00

Hey my dude, you seem like a guy who is just getting started. Here is something that a lot of cringiness and a year or so into the redpill that I found out:

Redpill isnt black or white, yes or no. Next or sex. Its not like this, yes its portraited like that because if it wasnt most guys would be lazy about it. You are putting too much effort dude. You do you. if you really improve yourself mentally and phyisically, you will reach a point where you feel so good about yourself and about life that the way you talk to anyone will be perfect.

Trust me dude, read the sidebard basics, once you got them, stop reading anything else on redpill and go do your life.

Project_Zero_Betas · 2019-06-30T00:35:10+00:00

Body language. You don't compliment a girl right off the bat because if you're doing it correctly, she already knows you find her attractive, giving praise just comes off as beta.

TBtgoat · 2019-06-29T23:13:29+00:00

I'm no expert, but I'll try and interpret and explain this to my understanding. I think there's a difference between complimenting a girl, to make it sexual and to make it clear your intentions. First impression typa deal. Trp advocates not to compliment women bc it implies dealing with women over time, whether that's a plate or LTR.

The goal is to never show women you need them. In fact, it should be a matter of them needing you so badly, they constantly have to impress you to keep you satisfied. You don't compliment women bc although they're hot, there's 100 hotter girls out there ready to jump on the dick. She knows that, you know that, you don't need to compliment her bc both of you know it's unnecessary

Title	how do you escalate/show intent if you aren't supposed to give compliments?
Author	crawleydown
Upvotes	3
Comments	4
Date	June 29, 2019 11:05 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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