How do you get your first plate?

martin-ho · 2016-01-12T21:00:02+00:00

Read "Bang" and "Day Bang" by Roosh V. Both books will teach you how to get sex with women. Apply the knowledge from the books. Done.

FrameWalker · 2016-01-12T21:01:56+00:00

It was very shameful, but turned out alright. I wouldn't do it the same way again. She was 5.5/10, good body.

It was my first tinder match - we texted back and forth for months. I had shit pictures and matched <3% of the time in the Era of unlimited swipes. I was pursuing other women but once or twice a week she'd text for some banter and then I'd invite her out maybe once or twice a month. Always "busy"

I was starting out as 5-6/10 beginning of the Redpill climb. Four months of dealing with shit tests, approaching, lifting and eating later she decides to meet up. "wow you look so much better than in your pics" and lots of Iois. I play it cool, she asks to hang out that Friday but I'm busy. We meet up for drinks a week later, I drive her across town to get her ID, when we get to the bar she runs into friends and wanders off.

I don't pursue her, but instead find some friends and interact with them. Internally I'm very calm and amused, and though I might now recommend leaving the girl behind, I invited her to the next bar as we left. Being unaffected is key for passing shit tests. She decides to join us.

Having a pretty good time, and at the end of the night I go to her apartment. She starts playing some YouTube videos and talking about lesbians for some reason, so l get her to play some videos of girls kissing. I then feel the tension and go for the kill. I bite her lip and she's not reciprocating so I immediately put on my shoes and head for the door. She jumps on me and starts making out hard. However I've already made my decision. I kiss her back passionately, throw her on the couch and leave.

Internally I refuse to be the BB. I understand th at not every girls gonna be DTF but if they're not, I've already entertained them for 1-2 hours and have better things to do. I tend to keep the first meet very chill and go for the close on date two or three if things aren't flowing on date two. If a girl is putting up LMR I walk out in 3-5 min or they leave. I've experimented with cooling down and trying again and it's rarely worth the effort. Every time I abruptly cut things off I've gained power I'm the relationship.

Anyway girl blows up my phone and she invites me over to help her house sit for a friend. We meet up in town, where I run into another girl I've been talking to. "who's that?" "a friend". We yet back to her friends place, she is a little unsure, I tell her she has nothing to worry about, and 15 min later I'm in. She fell pretty hard and lasted another 7 months.

So basically way too much investment on my part up front. Usually this means no sex ever, but my smv was high relative to hers by the time we met up. After sex she was very invested in me and was always pursuing. We were both upfront about not wanting a relationship and all meetups after the close were sex only. In the end I got more than I put in but I mishandled the beginning badly.

mr_nate_ · 2016-01-12T21:14:51+00:00

Fake it till you make it. For all she knows you're already drowning in sluts.

Rasalom72 · 2016-01-12T20:23:49+00:00

Pick up a woman, have sex with her, tell her you'd be willing to do it again.

IVIaskerade · 2016-01-12T23:03:30+00:00

Find girl. Become FWB, but only on her side. You should be putting in very little effort compared to her. Congratulations, you have your first plate.

SpinPlates · 2016-01-13T07:11:39+00:00

I didn't get my first plates until I was 21 and bartending. I was (unknowingly) good looking and young and naive and was pretty beta but knew how to joke around and tease girls and plates just started floating in the air around me without much of my own influence keeping them going.

user5577 · 2016-01-13T10:17:26+00:00

IMO first plate is the hardest plate.

Just talk to lots of girls, my first plate was the 4th girl I cracked onto.

Title	How do you get your first plate?
Author	dispatcherselfish
Upvotes	12
Comments	13
Date	January 12, 2016 8:18 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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