I'm at a point in my life where I'm spinning several plates and have gotten pretty good at identifying green and red flags, and also at avoiding oneitis.

I'm pretty unfulfilled with this whole plate spinning thing so given that one day I find a plate with enough green flags and no red flags, I feel like I might want the stability of an LTR at some point.

However, in the context of TRP, how does one maintain an LTR with a quality girl without inherently developing oneitis? My standards are pretty high and so if I end up spinning a plate who finally checks all the boxes for me, isn't she inherently 'special' in a way?

For context, I've fucked/plated upwards of 20 girls in the last 4 months. Of those, only one showed no red flags. It seems like there just aren't many quality women out there, or I'm not attracting them.