How do you reaction when she asks your count?

asd1100 · 2015-02-16T15:12:38+00:00

I accuse her of slut shaming and pulling back on female progress.

SpinPlates · 2015-02-16T08:58:17+00:00

This last girl I slept with. I flat out told her she was going to be my 30th and that she was a mile stone. (And she was one of the hottest girls I've ever gotten) She didn't mind at first. Then towards the end of the plate wobbling she was pretty vocal about how it was too many.

I thought it was hilarious that she went from me being her 6th to her later admitting I was her 11th.... When I was probably her 20th

tino125 · 2015-02-16T15:02:39+00:00

http://therationalmale.com/2011/11/22/youve-been-with-how-many-girls/

Never answer.

When girls ask I always A/D Amplify... "I lost count around 300" or "0, can't you tell I'm a virgin?" with a smug grin.

If she really doubles down and refuses to take one of those answers, I'd go with the "Talking about numbers leads to nothing but jealousy. I don't want to know yours, and I won't be telling you mine"

bustanutmeow · 2015-02-16T07:38:38+00:00

Id say something along the lines of, "I'm not sure, But you are definitely in the top 3" Only if she is. If shes not I would go down as far as 10.

HushtheHipster · 2015-02-16T05:23:10+00:00

Explain to her in a firm manner that all the count game does is add an element of jealousy for both parties and that you will not talk about each other's sexual histories.

kingofpoplives · 2015-02-16T16:29:38+00:00

How do you react when she asks your count?

I usually tell her I stopped keeping track a long time ago. If she persists, I will give her a ballpark estimate, depending on what her number is.

If hers is relatively low, I'll say something a lot higher than that, but still less than my real number.

If her number is high, I will just tell her because fuck it's not gonna be an LTR anyways so who cares.

Physist · 2015-02-16T13:15:50+00:00

Brush it off with laughter and never answer. Check out a thread I made months back called Fun With Common Shit Tests.

elevul · 2015-02-16T10:02:47+00:00

Amplify is generally the suggestion, so "thousands!" or "a lot more than you" would work fine.

aaron_the_great · 2015-02-16T17:37:34+00:00

If it's a girl I'm not intimate with (e.g. in a social setting), I'll just give them a joking, "how many do you think?" without confirming or denying whatever their guess is. More interesting that way.

If it's a girl I'm seeing, I'll tell her since I don't really care.

fnordsnord · 2015-02-17T07:32:59+00:00

Depends on the circumstances.

"let's have sex, then YOU guess my number." - Notice I didn't promise to tell her if she guessed right.

"A gentleman does not discuss such things."

oldredder · 2015-02-17T08:10:02+00:00

Only 1 girl ever did ask (LTR) and I just told her, and I presume she told me a sensible number. It didn't harm anything with us.

RPmatrix · 2015-02-16T08:23:54+00:00

I'd probably laugh and say 'who cares' and change the subject, because, "who cares?"

honestly I don't think it's important, there are other far more important things I want from a woman than a low 'n' count.

What blows me out is the amount of women I know have worked as sex workers in some way!

I have had at least 50% of the women I've asked, admit to fucking for money,most of these were HB8+s too!

realdev · 2015-02-16T08:01:40+00:00

How would I react? I'm pretty much honest about that sort of shit.. mainly because I want to know her partner count too.

Title	How do you reaction when she asks your count?
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	8
Comments	22
Date	February 16, 2015 4:47 AM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/2w1n7f/how_do_you_reaction_when_she_asks_your_count/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/askTRP/how-do-you-reaction-when-she-asks-your-count.191999 https://theredarchive.com/post/191999

Comments